Published in 2008, Outliers: The Story of Success is Malcolm Gladwell’s third consecutive best-selling nonfiction book, following Tipping Point (2000) and Blink (2005). While Tipping Point focuses on the individual’s ability to effect change in society, Outliers deals with the cultural and societal forces that give an individual a chance. Through a series of case studies, Gladwell insists that we have all too easily bought into the myth that successful people are self-made; instead, he says they “are invariably the beneficiaries of hidden advantages and extraordinary opportunities and cultural legacies that allow them to learn and work hard and make sense of the world in ways others cannot.”…
Overall, gay adoption is an option to consider. Since gay adoption is increasing adoption rates have raised drastically. Compared to others, gay parents have even excel in many aspects of parenting. There are many positives and negatives that go along with this issue. To further this subject matter there should be more awareness that gay adoption is a valuable option.…
With the combination of the CAPTA and the 1980 legislation there was the thought that foster care was harmful to children which is by no means supported by research. In fact, foster care was much safer than leaving a child with their biological family in which abuse has occurred. Many families were not offered extensive services to help the child and/or the family. This act was responsible for state services and created financial incentives which encouraged legislators to promote stable child welfare services for children. “This resulted in larger prevention efforts, expanded program eligibility standards, support for finding adoptive homes, increased availability of placements for special needs and minority populations, increased kin and family…
According to the Cambridge dictionary, adoption is “the act of taking another person's child legally into your family to raise as your own child.” It quickly became a very popular thing to do in the mid-1900s. Since then, adoption has been a very common topic of conversation, more so of argument. Similar to a myriad of other controversial topics, people have their own opinions; many people are actually against adoption and could sit down and write a whole list of reasons why adopting a child is a terrible idea. However, many of those people never take into account all of the positives that come with adopting a child. Adoption is an amazing, indescribable act that I look forward to being a part of in the future. Just like almost everything in this imperfect world, adoption has its cons. As well, adoption has its pros; I believe that the more people partake in it, the better we can make the lives of children in need.…
The foster care system in New York City is deeply flawed. Sixty-four percent of foster care children are impoverished in their adult lives, 50% of girls are pregnant within 12-18 months of aging out of the system, and 80% of all inmates on death row grew up in the foster care system. Foster care children should not have to fight against these statistics. The Felix Organization is providing solutions, through Camp Felix, Beyond Camp, the Felix Friendship Circle, and the Secret Santa Gift Exchange. Camp Felix, their largest program, is a four week long summer camp for children in foster care.…
Also having access knowing the history of the truth of your biological parents especially medical records about the adopted child. Not knowing where you really come from leaves a blank space of knowing yourself. Every child is a blessing and every child deserves a loving home. Most Birth parents have seen that giving a child up for adoption can be one of the best choices they could ever make for their child. Even though parents may not want to have to give up a child and not even have a child in the first place, killing an innocent life for the parents mistake is not right. If people want to act irresponsibly then they need to take responsibility for their actions. Children deserve a home no matter their…
There’s an abundance of people who would give anything in the world just to be able to have a family of their own, and to create offspring. Several people within society depend on adoption to make their dreams of being parents come true. Abortion cost a great sum of money while adoption does not cost you anything. When you compare adoption or abortion the pro’s for adoption are immensely clear. When you adopt, your pregnancy ends with life and you feel better about your decision versus abortion where your pregnancy will end with death and you will probably regret for a long span of time. Also, with adoption you remember giving birth, and get to see your child and hold it, while with abortion you will remember taking a life and never experiencing interaction with your child. Numerous people base their decisions for the future of their child off of first instincts and emotions instead of giving themselves time to consider what is best for the child and it’s future. Typically whenever people make decisions without thinking they will regret them for the rest of their life. No one wants to wake up every morning regretting their decision to abort every single day and their past actions to affect their everyday lifestyles. Abortion limits the child’s ability to succeed in…
Many people think that a closed adoption provides a sense of closure for all parties and it gives them the ability to move on with life. (Child Welfare)…
According to PBS there are over one 135,000 adoptions each year (Liem, Opper, and Wang-Breal, 2010). As this number continues to grow, it is clear that adoption is becoming a large part of culture today. Adoption is a vast and diverse topic with endless opportunities for discussion therefore; we narrowed down our research and specifically chose to study the lasting effects of adoption on a family. This paper will provide an overview of the topic and a summary of the research used.…
We as a society have this false sense of reality that everyone is treated equal, but I often ponder if we are truly equal? Everyone in the world today fears what they cannot understand. People have this enormous cowardice of homosexuality. If we as a nation are looked upon as being righteous, then why do we treat same sex relationships unfairly? Nowadays, same sex relationships are a natural occurrence. Everywhere in today’s media it is very easy to hear and see about the events, news, and controversy surrounding the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community and their right to marriage and adoption. Many people support the idea of equality for all regardless…
A family that adopts in the U.S. is a part of something big; it gives someone the feeling they are needed, improves our education in the United States, lower the amount of citizens that end up homeless, and lower the amount of people that will go to prison. Everyone should adopt domestically; to better the country and lives of the American…
Whatever the fears or concerns that each have the majority feel that an open adoption was the most beneficial to them and the child. Long-term research has shown that “adoptive families generally report that they do not fear that birthparents will return to claim the child and that they child does not display confusion about who is the parent” because of the open relationship they have with the birthparents (openadoption). Birthparents know how the child is doing and can see the security that the adoptive parents provide. Besides knowing the medical history of the birthparents, open adoption allows the adoptive parents to have a better understanding of character traits and that the child may have. An example is when the child tilts their head to the right when is the same as when the birth mother speaks, there are many ways that a child may react that are connected to ways the birthparents would have reacted, it can only be explained when its in their…
so-called rules are put into place to protect the children from danger. However, instead of keeping the children safe from harm, they are only put in danger in the long run.…
Open adoption refers to the legal agreement that each side has the full names of the other, plus their information to be able to get in contact with one another. An open adoption is usually formalized with a detailed agreement with rights granted by the birth parents to the adoptive parents. With an open adoption process it seems that the birthparents demonstrate a positive attitude towards their decision by being able to make a plan for the baby instead of abandoning the child. They also exhibit better mental health with an easier grief process. Being able to contact the birthparents provides the adoptive parents with photographs and makes it easier for trust to develop. With this type of adoption the birthparents are able to pick which family will be most suitable for the child, giving the adoptive parents a sense of entitlement to parenthood. Another great factor with open adoption is the ability to seek medical information that may be needed down the road. Having this type of adoption erases most questions asked by the child and takes away most of the confusion. The adoptive parents are able to communicate with their child instead of having unknown information. It is much easier for children of open adoption to understand their adoption, knowing information about their birthparents, and knowing that they were put up for adoption out of love. Yes, all families face issues and everyone has their own experiences with adoption, and with open adoption issues and questions are…
Open adoption birth parents experience a sense of less guilt as a benefit (Gray 27) of the adoption but what benefit does the child rear? Adoption should be more for the child and less for the birth parents emotional ground. But closed adoption does give the birth parents privacy because “placing a child for adoption is an extremely sensitive and vulnerable choice. Having a closed adoption creates an opportunity for a stronger sense of privacy,” (“N. A. I. C. H.” 1) and it can also reduce fear because “some birth mothers are concerned about explaining their choice, and a closed adoption serves as a way to prevent them from a confrontation with a child placed for adoption” (“N. A. I. C. H.” 1). Closed adoption rids the birth parents of the responsibility they were not ready for in the first place and gives the child a chance at a better life with more responsible individuals. In some cases, closed adoption kills two birds with one stone by riding a birth parent of the embarrassment of not being prepared or financially stable for a child while giving the adoptive child a chance for a better life with an adoptive family that is looking for a child to give love and a good life…