He states, “Hence, these friendships as well [as the friends] are coincidental, since the beloved is loved not insofar as he is who he is, but insofar as her provides some good or pleasure” (Aristotle 121). Aristotle acknowledges that pleasure and pain are involved every activity we do. Therefore, we need to be cautious about following or avoiding pleasure or pain. This relates to the importance of pleasure and pain because a friendship based on pleasure is normally short lived. It is purely based on looks and wit. One’s pleasures are apt to change over time. Aristotle says that we should establish which activities are good and which are bad. In finding these differences, we will eventually find doing the right thing is pleasurable and see how temporary things like certain friendships are wrong. By exercising these skills, we will learn to both feel and act
He states, “Hence, these friendships as well [as the friends] are coincidental, since the beloved is loved not insofar as he is who he is, but insofar as her provides some good or pleasure” (Aristotle 121). Aristotle acknowledges that pleasure and pain are involved every activity we do. Therefore, we need to be cautious about following or avoiding pleasure or pain. This relates to the importance of pleasure and pain because a friendship based on pleasure is normally short lived. It is purely based on looks and wit. One’s pleasures are apt to change over time. Aristotle says that we should establish which activities are good and which are bad. In finding these differences, we will eventually find doing the right thing is pleasurable and see how temporary things like certain friendships are wrong. By exercising these skills, we will learn to both feel and act