If they think it is such a bad word then do not use it. Otherwise the word is used in new slang to friend so I don't really see a problem.¨ The word is used in new slang to ¨friend¨ so there should be no problem. “A word is giving its meaning by society. So why should we create separate words designed to offend people.¨
However the counterclaim is wrong because if they actually did use it and did not care about what the African American people feel everybody would be fighting which would have caused social issues.People say ¨it's just a word¨ but it is actually capable of hurting people.The history behind it makes it even worse when you think about the people that died and fought for their civil rights.The real meaning behind it is not to call someone ¨dude¨ or ¨buddy¨ it actually is racist and hurtful towards African Americans.
Using the ¨n¨ word is offensive even if white or black person says it.It should not be said no matter what if they are trying to be friendly or trying to insult each