She described her parents death as expected, “I had been expecting (fearing, dreading, anticipating) those deaths all my life. They remained, when they did occur, distanced, at a remove from the ongoing dailiness of my life” (Didion, pg. 27, 2005). The sudden loss of John, was an entirely different experience, one that placed her in a “high-risk group” for complicated grief (Potocky, 1993). Didion noted the “ordinary nature of everything preceding” some disasters. Didion (2005) in the days that followed John’s death, takes action to inform his brother of the death, something that had to be done, while simultaneously recognising that she herself wasn’t ready to fully accept the news, “there was a level on which I believed that what had happened remained reversible” (pg, 32). Also, the writing of an obituary which she avoided would have
She described her parents death as expected, “I had been expecting (fearing, dreading, anticipating) those deaths all my life. They remained, when they did occur, distanced, at a remove from the ongoing dailiness of my life” (Didion, pg. 27, 2005). The sudden loss of John, was an entirely different experience, one that placed her in a “high-risk group” for complicated grief (Potocky, 1993). Didion noted the “ordinary nature of everything preceding” some disasters. Didion (2005) in the days that followed John’s death, takes action to inform his brother of the death, something that had to be done, while simultaneously recognising that she herself wasn’t ready to fully accept the news, “there was a level on which I believed that what had happened remained reversible” (pg, 32). Also, the writing of an obituary which she avoided would have