true love is not true
Hi, there. Well, I happened to write an article on ???LOVE??? for my publication book.
??Love??
What is love? Love is not what you assume it is. That 's why so many marriages end in divorce. People get a hormonal rush when they 're around a person and think they 're in love, and believe that person is "the one." Not even close. True love creeps up on you over a long period of time. It 's NOT that powerful feeling of "I must have this person." Instead, it 's a slow build-up. When you truly love someone you don 't have to ask yourself if it 's love. You 're not even ASKING yourself. After having this person in your life for quite some time, one day you wake up and automatically know. It 's not an emotional rush of feeling type of love, the kind that makes you breathless when you 're around them or thinking about them. That 's lust.
True love is a deep, calm knowing. You can distinguish it because love feels secure, while lust feels emotional. If you 're considering eventually getting married, remember one thing, marriage should not be the sequel to sex. It should be the sequel to friendship. Loads of people make big mistakes when getting married because they think they 're in love and that they 're suppose to marry the person who excites them and has good sexual chemistry. But after those feelings subside they end up with resentment, disgust and anger for this person. They were never really in love. Many times we are already married to that person .We feel trapped as well as unhappy. It 's terrifying to wake up one day and realize you 're in a relationship with someone who you can’t depend on to be by your side forever.
The best way to make sure that love lasts is to make sure it 's love to begin with. Have fun with the excited feelings you experience when you 're exploring passionate relationships with the opposite sex. But while you 're in those relationships, pay attention to the other people in your life that you care for, but aren 't "in love
??Love??
What is love? Love is not what you assume it is. That 's why so many marriages end in divorce. People get a hormonal rush when they 're around a person and think they 're in love, and believe that person is "the one." Not even close. True love creeps up on you over a long period of time. It 's NOT that powerful feeling of "I must have this person." Instead, it 's a slow build-up. When you truly love someone you don 't have to ask yourself if it 's love. You 're not even ASKING yourself. After having this person in your life for quite some time, one day you wake up and automatically know. It 's not an emotional rush of feeling type of love, the kind that makes you breathless when you 're around them or thinking about them. That 's lust.
True love is a deep, calm knowing. You can distinguish it because love feels secure, while lust feels emotional. If you 're considering eventually getting married, remember one thing, marriage should not be the sequel to sex. It should be the sequel to friendship. Loads of people make big mistakes when getting married because they think they 're in love and that they 're suppose to marry the person who excites them and has good sexual chemistry. But after those feelings subside they end up with resentment, disgust and anger for this person. They were never really in love. Many times we are already married to that person .We feel trapped as well as unhappy. It 's terrifying to wake up one day and realize you 're in a relationship with someone who you can’t depend on to be by your side forever.
The best way to make sure that love lasts is to make sure it 's love to begin with. Have fun with the excited feelings you experience when you 're exploring passionate relationships with the opposite sex. But while you 're in those relationships, pay attention to the other people in your life that you care for, but aren 't "in love