Untrustworthy Relationships
September 11, 2011
Trustworthy
Recently in life one has experienced having an untrustworthy boyfriend. Speaking with many freshman females every other female in a relationship has almost the same issues dealing with trusting one another. Being together two years trust has been our biggest issue. One way to solve a problem due to trust issues is by always being one hundred percent honest and open about everything rather it be a small or large issue. Sometimes the smallest things can become a huge problem in a situation such as this. Like when going somewhere takes longer than average make sure to tell the other person you make a extra stop somewhere or whatever the reason is for being late. We always make sure to send one another a text if we are suspecting to be late to meet one another and a simple explanation why. A second way to help with a untrustworthy boyfriend is by never hiding anything or leaving any details out about a situation. For example, if one is being suspicious with texting on their phone or with something to do with Facebook be willing to show the other person in the relationship who you are talking to and what the conversation is about. My boyfriend is in the auto sales business so he always trucks for sale so there for there’s sometimes odd numbers in his phone. Another solution one has found to help is to know that sometimes not everything is a lie. In a relationship both partners need to understand that people make mistakes and sometimes they learn from it, sometimes not. As a hard headed person this is a issue one learned the hard way. When one thinks the other might be lying it helps to sit down and actually think it totally through before accusing someone of something. Sometimes accusing someone of something they haven't done makes an even bigger problem. In a relationship one has to learn that nothing is easy and honesty is the most important key. If you really want something to work you have to be willing to work for
Trustworthy
Recently in life one has experienced having an untrustworthy boyfriend. Speaking with many freshman females every other female in a relationship has almost the same issues dealing with trusting one another. Being together two years trust has been our biggest issue. One way to solve a problem due to trust issues is by always being one hundred percent honest and open about everything rather it be a small or large issue. Sometimes the smallest things can become a huge problem in a situation such as this. Like when going somewhere takes longer than average make sure to tell the other person you make a extra stop somewhere or whatever the reason is for being late. We always make sure to send one another a text if we are suspecting to be late to meet one another and a simple explanation why. A second way to help with a untrustworthy boyfriend is by never hiding anything or leaving any details out about a situation. For example, if one is being suspicious with texting on their phone or with something to do with Facebook be willing to show the other person in the relationship who you are talking to and what the conversation is about. My boyfriend is in the auto sales business so he always trucks for sale so there for there’s sometimes odd numbers in his phone. Another solution one has found to help is to know that sometimes not everything is a lie. In a relationship both partners need to understand that people make mistakes and sometimes they learn from it, sometimes not. As a hard headed person this is a issue one learned the hard way. When one thinks the other might be lying it helps to sit down and actually think it totally through before accusing someone of something. Sometimes accusing someone of something they haven't done makes an even bigger problem. In a relationship one has to learn that nothing is easy and honesty is the most important key. If you really want something to work you have to be willing to work for