Children need to have boundaries and rules, regarding behaviour, which are clear and easy for them to understand. They need to see adults reinforcing these boundaries and rules regularly. If they do not understand them, if they are not clear, or if they are not consistently applied this gives conflicting messages this can then lead to confusion for them. Children can feel insecure if boundaries and rules keep changing; they can become upset and find it difficult to know how they should behave.…
the important thing to learn is that our behaviour as an adult or teacher can directly affect the child. children will not simply do as we tell them but will do as we do.…
* I personally I think that using consequences and following the ABCs will , help shape your childrens behavior. One reason is that if you start early and the child grows up remember what you taught him/her they are most likely to become great leaders in the future.…
This is communicating with your children and telling them what you expect from them. Set expectations and rules for your children so they what to do and what not to do. Another skill is staying calm in the midst of turmoil. Staying clam is very important while your children is in your presence. You have to be patient and stay clam when talking to your children. Consequences and consistency is also another skill it takes to be an effective parents. There are positive and negative consequences that can help shape your child or children behavior. Consistency is also very important. It shows that you’re a very good parent and that your kids can depend on you. Being a role model plays an important part in effective parenting. Children easily catch on to some of the things their parents are doing. Show and teach your children the proper way to behave. Once they have learned, it will follow them throughout their lives. The last skill on being an effective parent is effective praising. Praising your child can have a great impact on your children behavior. Praising your child can help them develop and increase your child self-esteem. Another thing praising can do is build their…
It important to explain the children what we are expected them and individuals so they can make choice of themselves. For examples, our nursery have a day out trip to somewhere, there is individuals children who willing to behave different, such as walk/run off without a adult or touching the things which they are not allow to, so we have ground rules to explain simply before we arrive the venue. E.g. ‘You are not allow to run off, you must hold adult hand but if you want to see something, you MUST ask adult first.’ Etc.…
Secondly showing respect to a child and listening to their point of view will in turn earn respect and you should always take time to remember their names. Another principle is being considerate and taking into consideration that a child maybe under stress which may have affected their behaviour in the short term. Maintaining a sense of humour is another key principle as laughter is a great way to relax and relieve stress. It is important to always take time to listen as a child may need to confide or ask advice. Showing interest develops relationships. Principle number six is to always remember personal issues and inquire from time to time and show concern, this makes a child feel cared for and will relax more in your presence. Finally being clear on key points and when speaking to a child and relaying information is important, ask the child to repeat what you just said so that it is clear that the child understood at the end of your discussion.…
In the end a child’s actions is based on how they were brought up from beginning of life, by teaching them right from wrong, good and bad. Always know that in good teaching good deeds will be rewarded but on the other side of the token when bad actions take place consequences will be given in different ways. Permissive and Authoritative Parenting are opposites but in the end have the same consequences towards the end but in desperate needs they will result back to what they were…
Children need to be shown boundaries and rules of behaviour in order to build good relationships all around.…
One of the main reasons for this is to help the child to feel secure emotionally. Boundaries need to be set, and soon a child will learn their rights and responsibilities. If goals and boundaries are not set at a young age the child will be confused as to what they are allowed to do and what they are not allowed to do. Children will often try to push the limits and if the parent/carer is not firm and especially consistent, the child will keep pushing to get their own way and will always be in trouble. This causes a child to be unhappy and confused and will remain with him/ her throughout their life. The adult will then find it difficult to set self- limits leading to difficulties such as eating disorders. Discipline must always be appropriate, reasonable and within the law. When boundaries are set and kept, it leads to a good adult/parent child relationship which is a vital component for healthy emotional development and a happy, stable…
In all children need to show their parents respect and it’s as simple as just doing what their parents ask them to do the first time. When children show respect towards their parents they also learn to show other adults respect too, and this is a very big deal in today’s…
The child will also learn to respect you and to respond positively to guidance about how they behave.…
From the day you were born, the different styles of parenting have influenced every breath and every step you have ever taken. This world of parenting involves many different intricacies and techniques that many people may not have even noticed. The endless amount of parenting tricks begs many to question at which techniques actually work and which ones that just aren’t true. Luckily, thousands of generations of parents have made it easier to ascertain which parenting techniques are the most effective in properly raising a child. These leading techniques in parenting include paying attention to whatever their child is doing at all times, giving strict discipline but only as a consequence, and not giving in to every single one of a child’s…
Strong rules and penalties are set, but children are also taught that it is okay to make mistakes. Often, the child will be warned and forgiven if they don’t reach a certain level of expectation. However, while forgiveness can be offered, the main part of authoritative parenting is setting the rules and then sticking to them. Too often, parents give their children rules, and then fail to follow through; this teaches your child zero except that you don’t mean what you say. The entire goal of authoritative parenting is to teach. Teaching children to be mature, teaching them that they are responsible for their own actions and the rewards or penalties that come from them. Also teaching independence, understanding, and the fact they if they need something, they are always able to turn to their parents and will be acknowledged with friendliness and…
Unlike other parenting styles, authoritative parents have both demanding and responsive criterium (Alegre 2011, p. 57). Authoritative parenting style involves two theories: "behavior control" and “acceptance" (Steinberg et al. 1989, p. 1525). According to Steinberg, behavioral control is defined as a control which limits and monitors their children’s behavior and actions. Steinberg also described that acceptance is a state where children accept the rules that were imposed on them because they understand and accept the reason why the rules were set. In other words, authoritative parents do not only enforce rules, but they also explain the basis and reasons why the rules and regulations need to be obeyed. As a result, children who go through this style of parenting and teaching develop more positive attitudes than their peers because they are treated warmly, democratically and firmly, which consequently affects their academic performance (Steinberg et al. 1989, p.…
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