I thought individuals attended Al-Anon to find help for their addicted loved one. But, instead, they find help for themselves. Reflecting about what was shared at the meetings, there comes a time when a loved one tries to change their responses to the addict’s behavior, but find that change is harder than foreseen. When the family or core relationships of an addict get healthier (whether or not the addict is receiving treatment or sober), they can extinguish the isolation that addiction encamps around its victims. Members of Al-Anon find that inner strength and self-worth are increased, they begin to feel their feelings, they can rebuild and take responsibility for their lives, and can start to set healthy boundaries (Al-Anon Family Groups,
I thought individuals attended Al-Anon to find help for their addicted loved one. But, instead, they find help for themselves. Reflecting about what was shared at the meetings, there comes a time when a loved one tries to change their responses to the addict’s behavior, but find that change is harder than foreseen. When the family or core relationships of an addict get healthier (whether or not the addict is receiving treatment or sober), they can extinguish the isolation that addiction encamps around its victims. Members of Al-Anon find that inner strength and self-worth are increased, they begin to feel their feelings, they can rebuild and take responsibility for their lives, and can start to set healthy boundaries (Al-Anon Family Groups,