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Alice Miller's Banished Knowledge
ENGLISH 120 MID-TERM
Alice Miller explored several themes in her book Banished Knowledge. The main idea of the book is the effect of childhood trauma, such as, emotional blindness and disconnection from one's real self and feelings and the need for an enlightened witness in order to begin the healing process. In Banished Knowledge, Alice Miller states that trauma suffered in our childhood is remembered by the body and is manifested later in the abused child's adult life often in a destructive manner to the individual's soul.
In exploring childhood trauma, Alice Miller argues that a child's innate ability is to blossom; when that child's needs and desires are ignored, the only possible recourse is to repress his/her distress, which is tantamount to mutilating his/her soul, resulting in the interference with his ability to feel, to be aware and to remember. If the "parent" does not see, accept, and acknowledge the child for who he/she really is and becomes emotionally unavailable to that child, his/her soul becomes ‘murdered'; the parent essentially creates a "walking dead" person.
According to Miller, the fact is that parents who are indifferent and incapable of showing love and warmth to their
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On the one hand, O'Conner wants us and the grandmother to "see" The Misfit for who he really is; a sad, weak person who is in pain, so she says of him at the end of the story, "Without his glasses, The Misfit's eyes were red rimmed and pale and defenseless-looking; on the other hand, O'Connor also wants us and The Misfits to "see" the grandmother for who she really is; she has become the child she once was because she has connected with her real self and feelings; she knows at last the truth she has been avoiding her whole life and dies a happy woman; because, she says of the grandmother at the end of the story "… the grandmother…half sat and half lay in a puddle of blood with her legs crossed under her like a child's and her face smiling up at the cloudless

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