Throughout the article there were many valid points as why using spyware is good to use to monitor your kids internet usage. Harlan Coben states that spyware is not used to to spy on your kids it used to monitor and look out for your child. Some things that you would want to look out for could possibly be cyber bullying inappropriate postings, or…
In the article, “Undercover Parents,” the author, Harlan Coben claims that parents should spy on their kids to monitor their internet use. He states that anything less than spying “borders on negligence.” Coben uses anecdotes to support his claims. His evidence is weak and his anecdotes are unbelievable at best. He poses several arguments and proceeds to refute them in his same idealistic manner. Coben’s idea of parenting and his claim are both idealistic and paranoid.…
In Harlan Coben’s article, “The Undercover Parent”(March 6,2008) he talks about the dangers on the internet and how we can prevent our children from the dangers by using spyware. I agree him about spyware. I think it can stop many things from happening.…
I agree with the article “Let Kids Run Wild Online” by Danah Boyd because it explains how parents shouldn’t be too protective of their kids while they're on the internet, but to let them have some freedom while their on the internet. Before technology had an uprising in our generation, the kids would run around freely and carelessly whether it be on their bikes, skateboards, roller skates, or just playing around in the jungle gym. They would always get a bruise or scar for being so careless and the parents would always get mad at the children for playing too roughly, so the parent would take them home and supervise them more carefully when they go out next time, instead of having the kid learn from his/her mistake. Parents shouldn’t helicopter over their children, but rather communicate with their children and let their children learn from their experiences.…
In the article “The Undercover Parent,” (2008) written by Harlan Coben, he is in support of parents using spyware on their children. Personally, I have to agree with the author because parents could keep their children a lot safer from the dangers of the internet by using spyware. I believe parents should use spyware, but only for safety reasons and not just for the sake of spying. The author gives an example of the dangers of being on the internet like the young boy that didn’t know he was talking to a pedophile or the girl committing suicide because of being cyberbullied. The author also states that parents shouldn’t overuse the spyware to the point where they read every word they tell their friends and know everything about what their friends…
The article,”Let Kids Run Wild Online,” the author, Danah Boyd discusses the issue with overprotective parents who constantly restrict their child’s freedom, especially now with technology being the new field for kids in today’s century. Parent’s are quite often viewed as overprotective and desperate to be involved in their child's lives, however, this isn’t necessarily bad. Contrary to Boyd’s argument, children should not be allowed to “run wild online,” for their are many consequences and negative outcomes to this matter. Firstly, children, who are main focus of this Body’s prompt, aren’t at the appropriate age to understand the the dangers of online activities, or many don’t take it serious or into consideration. Secondly, parents aren’t…
Harlen Coben, in an essay in The New York Times, “The Undercover Parent” (March 16, 2008) asserts that parents should install spyware on their children’s computers in order to protect children from the dangers of the internet. Coben claims that because what a child does on the internet is public, as a parent you have the right to view it as well, so we should be monitoring them in this area as well. However, Coben does admit that this is indeed an invasion of privacy, but that in order to be a good parent we must do so to protect our children from pedophiles and bullies that lure on the internet. Coben attempts to educate parents about the dangers the internet poses to children, and how spyware can be an effective solution to our need to protect our kids.…
I agree with the fact that spyware should be used in an appropriate manner to keep children from the dangers the internet can pose. It makes sense that parents would use all possible resources that modern day offer to keep their precious children safe from harm. Some parents will say that it is better to leave their children to their own devices to avoid clashing with them. Although this has worked fairly decently for most parents there are always pedophiles or catfish who seize at the opportunity prey on kids whose parents have turned…
In his essay from the New York Times, “The Undercover Parent,” Harlan Coben argues that parental use of spyware to monitor a child’s activities on the computer. The essay begins with Coben showing his initial apprehension towards the use of spyware stating, it’s an “invasion of privacy.” Coben mentions that his, as well as many other parents, hesitation may have started from the word: spyware. Nevertheless, as the essay continues on Coben’s views, on the subject, change. He says that some parents overprotect their children and might abuse the spyware programs, but most parents just want to use them to oversee their child’s activities and make sure they are doing the right thing and not getting themselves into trouble. Coben points out that it will be a hard choice to make and your child might be mad at you for “spying” on them, but in the end you’re just trying to do the best thing and you just want to protect them.…
Harlen Coben, editorial,¨Undercover Parent ¨( March 16,2008 ), claims that parents should monitor their teens and what they do on the internet. The author started off being against this idea, but then he sat down at a dinner with his friends whom convinced him otherwise. The author backs up his reasons after his anecdote. The authors purpose of this article is to make sure that parents are doing their best to protect their teens from the dangers of being online, in order to establish total and complete safety with his or her teen/teens. The intended audience for this article is parents with teenagers or kids who have access to the internet, now assuming the author has teens of his their would be some connection made with the audience their.…
Coben argues that there are many pedophiles on the internet with a fake identity communicating with many teens (Coben 1). Coben also talks about many teens being cyber bullied and committing suicide(Coben 1). These two pieces of evidence frighten me because if you don't know what is going on with your child you never know what could happen to them.…
Sean, P. (2009, October 7). Children as young as five 'using the internet without parental…
More and more frequently laws are being put in place to protect the privacy rights of certain individuals on the internet. One of the most prevalent laws involving privacy is associated with children. Protecting children online is very important, because there are people out there willing to harm them. The Children's Online Privacy Protection Act states that it is unlawful for an online service directed towards children to collect personal information from them. The COPPA’s website, characterizes…
With the advancement of technology comes increased connectivity to a digital world where our children find themselves with limited guidance. This new realm is one that parents and educators have continually tried to navigate in an attempt to create a safer place for our children. Parents try to protect their children by imposing restrictions on Internet usage, while teachers struggle to teach Internet safety and digital citizenship in the classroom. Holding our youth accountable for their online behavior in a society that values Internet sensaltionalism has proven to be difficult, causing those in positions of authority to ask themselves where to draw the line. As the answer to this question changes with each new case, and more and more children…
Children are our society’s most valuable and fragile resources. It is our responsibility as parents, adults, and caregivers to provide our children with as many safeguards to protect them from physical and virtual dangers. Children are spending more and more time on the internet and without the proper protection and supervision they can be exposed to indecent or harmful material or predators that seek to harm them. “What children are encountering on the Internet, particularly in terms of indecent or otherwise unsuitable material or contacts with strangers who intend to do them harm, is an issue of major concern.” (Smith, 2001). The Children’s Internet Protection Act (CIPA) of 2000 and the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA) of 1998 were put in place as an attempt to protect our children from the harm that could befall them on the internet from harmful materials and predators that target children.…