Appearance is everything, the way someone looks, talks, and acts all make up who they are as a person. When someone does something the way they are seen often affects the outcome and consequences of their actions. This is seen very often in both Frankenstein by Mary Shelley and The Unbecoming of Mara Dyer by Michelle Hodkin. The main characters in both of these novels do awful things but their physical appearance, mindset, and whether they are a good or a bad person affects the way they are treated. The way society sees a person's overall appearance too often changes the way their actions are seen and dealt with and how they are treated as well.…
In John Irving's “A Prayer For Owen Meany”, the raw heart behind one struggling with acceptance due to appearance is demonstrated . Owen Meany is a touching young man who is very intelligent yet extremely judged due to his appearance. Owen is unique because he breaks beauty standards and is completely comfortable in his own skin. Many people in modern society struggle with appearance and acceptance which is often the root of most eating disorders, depression, and body issues. The beauty industry has such a grip on society that most people find themselves wanting to be taller, skinnier, tanner, or blonder, all while claiming to be comfortable in their own skin. People have fallen into the trap that…
Bullying is a prevalent behavioral issue among adolescents. It can be defined in terms of any and all forms of aggression where one is targeted and is repeatedly, physically, or verbally harassed. This type of behavior, whether it is the bully or the one being bullied, can lead to long and short-term effects on the mental wellness of a still developing adolescent.…
The information that will be discussed in my portion of Chapter 10 leading difficult people is a continuation of identifying two archetypes bullies and backstabbers. A brief discussion of how the seven rules for dealing with difficult people applies to approaching bullies and backstabbers. The chapter later goes on to discuss several methods that can be utilized to handle the malicious behavior of bullies and backstabbers and the three key points that will support those methods.…
We are introduced to a girl who hates herself due to her physical appearance. She lives her life trying to achieve the perfect look, the one that society will approve of. For girls growing up is always harder, since we are young we are introduced to Barbie world. A world where you must be beautiful to fit in. We are taught that in order to be happy we must have a perfect body, perfect hair, perfect face, and so on. Most of the times girls based their life on achieving a perfect look, they spend a great amount of money on plastic surgeries, and trying to change themselves.…
Meraviglia, M., Becker, H., Rosenbluth, B., Sanchez, E., & Robertson, T. (2003). The respect project. Journal of Interpersonal Violence, 18, 1347-1360.…
In the novella Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck, Steinbeck uses the poem “To a Mouse” by Robert Burns as a foundation for the book.…
Everyone has a fear as they go outside their house and into the superficial world which we have developed. This fear drives us to change our consumption in products and even physically change our bodies to mimic the ideal Kim Kardashian. This fear is not the bully we will eventually encounter, but really the fear of individually not fitting in because we are not beautiful, skinny, or have big boobs or a big butt. We are afraid because we…
Western society often dictates what the desirable qualities in males and females should be. Movies, magazines, and even action figures/dolls are prime examples of society portraying the way a man or woman should look. As a result, severe body dysmorphic disorders, like muscle dysmorphia (MD), have begun to emerge. Situations that can increase ones risk of developing muscle dysmorphia include environments where physical appearance is of great importance and a childhood history of being bullied. This leads to negative characteristics such as low self-esteem, masculinity/femininity issues, and harmful eating behaviors ().…
‘‘After nearly 15,000 students were suspended, for bullying in the 2008-2009 school year’’ according to source 2 in the story ‘’Tales of Bullying’’ written by Modigliani Laura. There are a lot of people bullied they need to be stopped, every day there are lots of kids bullied. A bully is worse than a bystander because bullies hurt people’s feelings, they could cause someone to commit suicide, and usually are suffering from something from their personal life. ‘’The rise in teen suicide kids were once able to put bullying behind then after leaving school at the end of the day’’. ‘’ The reason kids bully is because according to Source 1, bullies might have a problem at home, angry, or hurt about something. One such example is a child…
An example of how bullying causes plastic surgery is the New York Daily News article, when a six year old from Utah had a procedure done because he was being bullied by classmates due to his abnormal and larger sized ears (Stumpf). In the article, the parents of the child who got the procedure on his ears to make them smaller said “he just gets down on himself and he thinks, “I’m not good enough” (Stumpf). A child should never have to feel that way. His parents decided to let their child have the procedure done because they were afraid that the extreme torment from the bullies would cause damage to their son due to his young age (Stumpf). Steven J. Pearlman, MD states “It’s harder to make friends so they become socially stunted. They are also perceived as less intelligent by peers and even some adults” (Stumpf). In this quote, Pearlman is describing the young children who have an abnormal body feature and how they end up later on in their life. He says if they have an abnormal feature and they end up getting surgery on it, there is a better chance that they won’t be made fun of for the rest of their young adulthood. Even though Pearlman believes some children should undergo the surgery, there are other doctors who believe that the surgery isn’t the right method to stop bullying. Dr. Karen Caraballo believes that “some children need to learn and eventually accept and grow an appreciation for the different and unique features that they have (Stumpf). Caraballo also believes that the parent and child involved can work through the bullying that is being done to the child because of their different physical features. Bullying is a main reason why many children get plastic surgery. With more and more people against bullying, this reason should start to decrease as to why…
As a child in middle school, I had my long hair cut short and was bullied for it. Some of my classmates said that I looked like a boy. Because of their harsh words, I began feeling insecure about my new haircut and not pretty. Ironically, the kids who said this about me were the “nice” and pretty kids everybody seemingly liked. A friend of mine reassured me about my new haircut and said that…
In high school I had a very tough time with my body image. Despite my loving and supportive parents always telling me I was beautiful, I always felt like I needed to be hidden away from the public eye. I took every bit of criticism to heart and let it severely bother me. The people I surrounded myself with could sense my low self-esteem. Being so sensitive to criticism made me a very easy target for bullying. The bullying and criticism eventually took grasp on my mind and made me see everything though a negative way. Many things can cause poor body image in people, things like criticism, attitude, and bullying.…
At this point, I think the author’s overall intended message was that making fun of someone’s looks can have a very serious effect on the person’s life and their self-image. The reason I chose this text is because I was bullied as a kid for being heavier. Bullying can include making fun of one’s looks, which still happens today with devastating results of suicide. This text reveals this experience through the use of the characters point of view. Her classmate told her she had a great big nose and fat legs to which she saw herself as ugly and to be “beautiful” she cut off both her nose and legs (Piercy…
Everything starts when we are young. In school they teach us about our society, what are we suppose to look like and how we are suppose to act. Some of us have some issues with the way we look. We want to look like certain celebrities and we want the attention on ourselves. We listen to other people opinions, taking in and let it impinge on us. It’s easy to become insecure when you constantly compare yourself to seemingly strong, flawless people.…