Are Your Expectations For An Ideal Mate Reasonable Or Achievable?

My top two traits for physical appearance would be attractive face and taller than me, for personality/disposition my top traits would be faithful and kind, for communication/relationship skills it would be in tune with own feelings and deals with anger well,then for interests they would be enjoys family and enjoys hearing about my day, and then my top two traits for family characteristics would be likes children and makes good money. So overall my top ten traits are attractive face, taller than me, faithful, kind, in tune with own feelings, deals with anger well, enjoys family, enjoys hearing about my day, likes children, and makes good money.

Write a paragraph that starts with… My ideal mate would be someone who…

My ideal mate would be someone who I feel comfortable and open with, somebody who I enjoy spending time as well as them enjoy spending time with me. Having an honest relationship that allows us to communicate and not be afraid to talk to each other and voice our own opinions. Simple things, like wanting to check in with each other throughout the day, telling each other small stories that we thought the other might enjoy, and being happy to just go home to each other at the end of the day. Someone who is
supportive and proud of their partner and is happy for their achievements, and are willing to make sacrifices if need be. I would also want my partner to be family orientated,want children, and have a good job to support our family. Are your expectations for an ideal mate reasonable and achievable?
Why or why not?

I think my expectations for an ideal mate are reasonable and achievable, I believe that most of the traits I chose are traits that any good partner should have. Maybe excluding the physical appearance though, as that’s just my own preference and I am aware that I could find a great partner without any of the physical appearance traits I checked off. But overall I think that all the traits I checked off are very reasonable for a person that wants to have a successful relationship and is willing to put in work and dedication into that relationship.

Does your current partner meet or have past partners met your expectations of an ideal mate? How or how
not?

While I have never been in a serious relationship I would like to think that the people I have been attracted to in the past would met my expectations of an ideal mate but as I think about it more they probably wouldn’t. The people that I thought I may like were all young and not really looking to be family orientated, not that I was at that time either but I feel like it’s always in the back of my mind. I do think they probably had some traits that would meet my expectations but not to a point where I would notice it right away or want to actually get to know them rather than just thinking to myself that they are attractive and I might like them.