When friendships are dissolved, the consequences can be devastating. In Aristotle’s Nicomachean Ethics - VIII – IX he explains how humans learn from one another, and that humans are innately social animals (Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics - VIII – IX, 148-149). Friendships are required in life learn about values. Without friends, humans would not be able to learn such values from each other, nor will they be able to confide in each other. Having friends in life allow for the mutual growth of both parties. Rebecca Traister writes in her article “What Women Find in Friends That They May Not Get from Love” her experiences with her friend Sara. Traister says, “In each other, we found respite, recognition, a shared eagerness to relax, take stock and talk about it all.” (Sara Traister, “What Women Find in Friends That They May Not Get from Love, 1), going on to say this relationship was mutual where they benefited from each other’s company. As they both grew together over time, much like Aristotle suggests is the value of friendship. Humans life are not fulfilled unless friends are there to support each other. As Traister says, “For many women, friends are our primary partner through life” (Sara Traister, “What Women Find in Friends That They May Not Get from Love, 5). In Traister’s case, the friendship she shares with Sara is a friendship of virtue.…
As much as humans like to control their own lives, there are many aspects that are outside of our control. For example, we do not choose the families into which we are born or the places where we grow up. The same is sometimes true of friendships. Some friends we choose because we identify them as people who are similar to us and because they offer us something we want. Occasionally, however, we make unexpected friends. For example, a young person bumps into someone at the library who is crying because she has lost an important paper she was writing for school. As a result, the two become friends and learn that helping people through tough times is at the core of strong relationships.…
A true friendship should pose a likeliness to a codependency in nature, all parties benefit from it. If human beings went through life in solitude, our lives would be bleak. Friendship can be shown in many forms, friendship can be sharing your last bit of food, not judging someone for the strange things they do, comforting someone through a rough time, or just being there for the person whenever. Friendship is having someone to share everything with, the good and bad included.…
One minute you have a lot of friends, and the very next minute you only have one or two. As you get older you end up losing a lot of friends but you gain the knowledge of who your true friends are. Those friends who have stuck by your side through the ups and the downs are your life long friends.…
In many western societies, friendship is portrayed in a very positive and desirable light, and most of all something people have the freedom to choose, unlike kinship. However as examined further in this essay, friendship means and functions as many different things to different people and can be influenced by an array of different social factors. There are various stages in the life-course that provide both opportunities and threats to the development and maintenance of friendships, yet it is evident that friendship does change and evolve in meaning and function through the life course.…
Friendship is first and foremost an ideal, something to aspire to, much like wisdom. It is never fully attainable, at most we are offered brief moments to its truth and we should revel in it when it shows itself. Much like wisdom, the pursuit of it is noble, for instance you don’t break off everything because of one small fight. If that is the case then it would not be a strong relationship. One does not give up when things start to get rough, so the pursuit of an impossible goal, actualizing an ideal, is futile, but we become better people through the chase and that is what…
Friendship is founded upon how well individuals interact with and understand each other. Friends not only value similarities, but know to also appreciate differences, Most of all, a good friend is one who genuinely cares about the welfare of his companion, despite all the shortcomings that may come with the…
“Friends encourage good habits, chase away depression, help you overcome diseases and cause satisfaction, pleasure and happiness” (The Huffington Post UK). It has been scientifically proven that you need friends in your life. Nothing can show a person’s loyalty than being the greatest friend possible. There are certain people that others need in their life to be able to live a great life. John Steinbeck, the author of, Of Mice and Men, shows that a healthy friendship is the most important commodity you can have in your life.…
In the essay "Friendship" by Ralph Waldo Emerson the importance of that special bond between two people is constantly conveyed to the reader. Emerson breaks down and explains the different aspects of friendship that we sometimes forget or overlook. He reminds us that acquaintanceship is something to be cherished and that we should never take the people that love us unconditionally for granted. Emerson's frequent use of inspiring and thought-provoking quotes helps the reader understand where he is coming from.…
Hearing about the opportunity to become a student ambassador for High school immediately caught my attention. Being a student ambassador would distinguish me from anyone else throughout my entire school career and teach me new things about being a positive, smart, and respective role in the community.…
While looking back to my childhood pictures I was able to find two of them that have a special significance for me and my early development. One of them is my current two best friends and me, the other photograph shows my mother, father and I in the middle. Both pictures were taken in my 6th birthday party, a celebration that brings family and friends together and one of the most remembered memories for many at this stage of life. Friends play a very important role in the development of middle childhood, for me, it was crucial. I was a child who didn’t take rejection very well therefore having friends for me was a sign that people liked me, making me feel appreciated and accepted. My friends played a very strong role in the development of these growing years, peer interaction for example provided me with the opportunity to develop social competence, understanding of others, and construct interaction and sustain friendship. My friends, specially the two on the pictures, helped me to fulfill social needs, such as companionship and acceptance. In addition, another important factor during this time for me that making friends and having friends introduced to my development was being able to appreciate other’s feelings and intentions. My two best friends and I were always a team, the three of us always shared and participated together in school events and activities and until this day we have been able to communicate, protect, help and support each other and I personally think that is also something learned during this early life…
The first realization I came to was that friends are more than people I may occasionally see in passing, or at social events. Although these people may be friendly and fun to be around, I consider them acquaintances, not friends. Unlike an acquaintance, a friend is someone with whom I genuinely enjoy being around and can call upon other than just when a favor is needed. Real friends know one another’s birthday, favorite color, pets’ names, parents’ names, etc. True friends will do whatever is necessary to ensure they are involved in each other’s lives.…
"Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend." (Albert Camus). Both books A Separate Peace by John Knowels and Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck focus on friendship. Gene and Finny are best friends but are not always there for each other while George is always there for Lennie in the good and bad. A best friend will be there for you through thick and thin.…
Friendship is like love. It cannot be measured or categorized, nor can it be explained or defined. Friendship is an enigma I do not think anyone will ever solve. It cannot ever be accurately put into words. Why do we form these bonds with other people who are not our family, and who we will never have any biological need for? This is a question I can only attempt to answer. A commonly used phrase is, “friends are the family you get to choose.” While that may be true, friends tend to be much closer than family. True friends are hard to find and even harder to hold on to. In my short eighteen years on this earth, I have been lucky enough to make a few. Those incredible friends I have made through the years know me better than I know myself. No matter I do, they are always on my side, and they push me to be more accepting of myself and others. One of my greatest flaws is my propensity towards negative self-criticism, but my friends never let me dwell to long on the negatives of life. Instead, they lift me up when I am feeling down, boost my self-confidence, and bring me mounds of happiness.…
A friend is a person who will always give you a hand when you are in need or offer you comfort when you get into trouble; a friend is a person who you trust and can rely on. In addition, a friend is a person who you can share your secrets with and talk freely without any pressure. Joseph Addison once said, “The greatest sweetener of human life is friendship. To raise this to the highest pitch of enjoyment, is a secret which but few discover.” Hence, Friendship love makes people’s life more colorful and wonderful. It is impossible to imagine a life without this…