Gina Barreca in the story of “Be Like One of the Guys? Why?’ describes how women don’t appreciate or associate with their gender group. She talks of women feeling smart when compared to male gender. Women feel sufficient when told they are one of the boys. On the other hand, when told that they are just like other women they feel weak and insufficient.…
Everyone was born to be themselves, they have their own feelings, looks, and beliefs. Therefore, an individual should not change themselves for anyone. To be part of a group, the group should accept them for who they are. The characters in the stories and movies "The Sociology of Leopard Man," "Two Kinds," and Dead Poets Society agreed that they would not change themselves in order to blend in with other people. Someone once mentioned "If you cannot change the world, then change your world." Sometimes, to communicate with others or groups, it is a good idea for individuals to change themselves a little bit to fit with everyone else when necessary.…
The main idea of the book is that any kid can fit in in any situation. All you have to do is be yourself and you will make friends. When Junior goes to his new school at first he tries to be like them but he realizes that he can’t be and he makes friends by being funny and playing basketball real good. He gets respect for fighting. Also if bad things happen to you things will be OK after a while. For example in the book his dog dies and also his grandmother, his sister and his dad’s friend dies. Even though he gets real sad from going to all the funerals he just keeps going. He even laughs in the car when his sister dies. That shows no matter what you can keep going even if people in your life…
I tried to fit in multiple times by acting like them but it was not the real me. I lie to myself; I believe that I am who they think I am, even though I am not. For example, once in awhile I feel left out and alone. I always feel like I have to be perfect and entertain them. As a result, I start to do idiotic things that are not allowed; therefore, I started to get in trouble and being reckless.…
The anther in the article individuality vs conformity explains that there is a middle between being weird, trying to fit in with the rest, and being yourself in the middle. The anther supports her analysis by justifying how she thinks there is a middle to individuality and conformity. The anther argue in order so that when teen read this they are inspired to find a side. The author writes in a friendly style for her teen audience and other interested in the topic of the balance between…
In our daily life, we have to put up with rules, judgemental people and drama. Most of us stay within those imaginary lines to be okay. We accept the things that people tell us and change in order to fit into society. Although you can not see it, it is common for us to try to fit in. We do it in order to not get bullied or judged. Being a person who follows the idea of conformity can be led to the idea of you being a, “goodie two shoes”. Unlike a non-conformist, they can be more of an out-going person. Although I am against the idea of being a full conformist, I can not say that I do not follow it. In order to stay out of trouble or harms way, it can lead for you to end up following the rules.…
Another reason maybe, is that some people just don’t fit in, because they aren’t the loudest, they might be a little weird or are not the best looking and just want to be noticed, people influence them into turning them into something they’re not just to get a reputation for example some of the popular kids in school, everyone wants to be like them very typical am I not right?. People like you and I try to save them, but before we know it they are in the crowd and lost in…
In a world that pressures for conformity, one of the greatest challenges we all face is to be ourselves. We not only want to belong, we need to belong, and so we are at our best when we feel connected to those around us. We like to be appreciated, enjoy admiration and crave to feel significant to those around us. Too often though, in our quest to feel significant, we forfeit expressing our individuality and limit our vulnerability. In the process we lose touch with what makes us special, disconnect from authenticity and give up what makes us someone who others feel they can really connect to. All people balance the need to conform and fit in with the need to express their individuality throughout their lives. The want to belong has the capacity to reduce individuality and influence members to behave in un-normative ways.…
Although society tends to focus on teenagers' needs to conform and follow fads, and many parents worry about how the desire to conform will influence thedecisions their children must make, issues surrounding conformity continue into adult life. They may be as trivial as choosing the proper clothes to wearto the office so as not to stand out or as serious as choosing whether to have one's children vaccinated against diseases. Finding a rational balance between belonging and being an individual is a challenge for everyone. Many people who feel as if this area of their lives is out of balance benefit from seeking professional counseling to help them find a level of conformity that is more…
At school, I didn’t always fit in. I didn’t wear name brand clothes or pretty dresses, and I didn’t have the popular school supplies or toys. However, like most kids, I always wanted to…
We’ve all seen or heard people telling you how to look, feel, or act. People telling you to change,so you can fit in or look better. We all have been pressured to be something we’re not. Society thinks that conformity is huge part of life, that it keeps everything together. Conformity is important, but what’s more important is being unique, being yourself not someone you’re not. It is not good for individuals to change their feels, beliefs, looks, or actions to fit in with society because you’re basically changing your image to impress people.…
What does it mean to “be yourself”? What does it mean to conform to comply with others standards or opinions? Do you ever change your appearance, behaviors, or actions based on what you believe others will think? When venturing into the topic of conformity vs individuality, I strongly believe that you should strive to both exercise conformity and individuality in your life. It feels great to be part of a group, to fit in, but in doing so DO NOT lose sense of who you truly are. If in social situations you find yourself being steered to talk differently, act differently, or simply do things differently from the way you truly are, then you may be conforming in order to fit in. Be who you genuinely are, not who people want you to be. Ultimately,…
There is an unfortunate reality in that there are millions of people around the world who are willing to do almost anything, even lose themselves, just so they can be accepted and become part of the crowd. To keep things in perspective, wanting to be accepted, wanting to fit in is not exactly a bad thing. In fact, it’s basic human nature for survival and social growth, and it starts at a very young age. During our developmental years, we feel the need to be accepted or be worthy of acceptance. This can’t be met when you are isolated, other people have to be involved if these needs are to be met.…
Why fit in when you can stand out? Fitting in isn't unique, it's blending in with everyone around you. When you fit in you are like a blank page in the showing world. You want you and your animal to look professional and to look like a bright yet dark color on the blank page.…
Growing up can be challenging even with the ideal surroundings. Your teen years are even more puzzling because you seem to be stuck in between being a child and an adult. Throw in not having a father or mother around and life gets difficult. The year 2001 was a difficult year for my family and the nation. My life growing up wasn’t picture perfect, but in one very long month I learned that kindness from those around will help you endure and survive.…