To those who have tried and have lost, do not despair. There is always a time for winning and a time for losing. There's always a reason the way things turn out to the way they are. Everyone wants to win but it is beyond our control - we can only try our best. I congratulate you for trying, never mind if you did not win what is important is you have tried your best. Let us learn not to measure ourselves against the Olympics; doing so would make us lead very unhappy lives. Let us just find joy in doing our best - not measured by someone else but measured by us. For those who have never tried to compete because they believe they have no talent, that is not so - you'll never know what you've got until you try. No matter how simple we are, we are still creations of God, we are here for a very significant role; you may not be the best singer, but you can be the singer's best friend. I would like to share a part of Douglas Malloch's poem which runs this way…
We can't all be captains; we've got to be crew,
There's something for all of us here,
If you can't be a highway, then just be a trail,
If you can't be the sun be a star;
It isn't by size that you win or fail - Be the best of whatever you are.
I'd like to close with this message: Life can never be all wins. “Sooner or later, everyone will fall short at something important to them - whether it be a job, a dream, a relationship. Let failure in one endeavor make you better at another