“If you are depressed, you are living in the past.
If you are anxious, you are living in the future.
If you are at peace, you are living in the present.”
― Lao Tzu
As I left the Indianapolis airport at almost midnight, I knew that I was in an unfamiliar place, however, I couldn't see it either. Compared to the sparkling night cities in California where I grew up in and left behind, here it was almost completely dark, with only the dim highway lights to aid our vision. I grew up in the city where a large Vietnamese population resides for up to 12 years called Little Saigon. Always in a comfortable place, the culture outside of my home resembles the inside as well—unlike Noblesville, Indiana. I was paranoid about how large the difference would be. The food, the places, the …show more content…
If I knew that living here is not that big of a dramatic change, I could have kept my calm and adapt with ease. I kept comparing, longing for, what I assumed, the comfortable life I always had, and not making the best with what I currently had. Since proximity is the main contributor to the effects on my lifestyle, I had to take a more circuitous route for my necessities, like with the grocery shopping.
Not saying that I’m much different from the Noblesville civilization. For instance, I do I go to school like every other high school student. However, after the move, I realize that we all have a sense of nonconformity. There are various methods for carrying something out, and a way that one may find practical may be the opinion of the minority in society. In the end, I should choose a path that I am most comfortable and content to take. Who knows... Maybe I will choose to move back to California one day.
“My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” —Maya