Desdemona Do The Right Analysis

Does Desdemona do the right thing by marring Othello behind her father's back? Desdemona does what she feels is right, therefore it doesn't make her a terrible person. Everyone does things behind their parent's backs. Plus, Desdemona is often treated like an object, as if she wasn't capable of making her own choices. Instead of referring to Desdemona as a young adult which is what she is; people objectify her, and treat her like she isn't capable of making her own decisions. People often speak about her like if she has no agency. The moment she ran away with Othello she knew it would be a big responsibility. She acted mature enough to stand up to her father and prove her point on why she left with Othello. She didn't leave because she wanted to get away from her father, but because she was ready to be a wife and be with someone.

Desdemona's own father treats her like if she's a precious jewel or an ornament. If someone where to go to your house at the middle of the night, and tell you that someone has "stole" your daughter not "kidnapped" but that you've been stolen from, how would you react? Iago say "Zounds, sir, you're robbed! For shame, put on your gown. Your heart is burst; you have lost half your soul" (1.1.88). Robbed? Couldn't
they have picked better choices of words to tell him that his daughter ran away or even got kidnapped? But they say "you've been robbed" like if Desdemona was some piece of jewel that someone went to steal at Brabantio's house. Brabantio doesn't believe that his daughter went and got married behind his back, instead he accuses Othello of putting a witch craft on her. "O thou foul thief, where hast thou stowed my daughter? Damned as thou art, thou hast enchanted her! For I'll refer me to all things of sense, If she in chains of magic were not bound, Whether a maid so tender, fair, and happy, So opposite to marriage that she shunned the wealthy curlèd darlings of our nation, Would ever have, t' incur a general mock, Run from her guardage to the sooty bosom Of such a thing as thou—to fear, not to delight. Judge me the world if 'tis not gross in sense that thou hast practiced on her with foul charms" (1.2.65-70). Not only does Brabantio accuse Othello of "stealing" is daughter, but he also insults him saying that Desdemona will never run away with "a black thing like him". This shows us that not only does Brabantio undermine his daughter's decisions, but he is also racist. Iago, Othello's ancient has no respect towards women; he uses derogatory language when he talks about Desdemona. Iago says "Even now, now very now, an old black ram is tupping your white ewe" (1.1.87-88). Iago refers to Desdemona as a "white sheep"… what is a white sheep? A defend less animal that can hardly take care of itself. He made it seem like if Othello was taking advantage of Desdemona because she is much younger than him and inexperienced. But then again, is experience really needed in a relationship? There's always a first time for everything, people aren't born knowing things especially if you have a dad like Brabantio. In the play he is over protective of Desdemona, even though he doesn't acknowledge her ability of being a responsible young adult; he treats her as if she is some sort of jewel that he doesn't want anyone to take away from him. Roderigo is the only person that may refer to her as more than just an object.
Unfortunately he wants Desdemona a little bit too much, he's more obsessed than anything else. Iago promises him that he will ruin Desdemona's marriage so that she can leave “The Moor” and fall in love with Roderigo, but in reality Iago doesn't do anything. When Roderigo doesn’t see nothing bad happening to Desdemona’s marriage he becomes devastated and thinks about drowning himself. Roderigo says “I will incontinently drown myself” (1.3.305), drown himself? Him and Desdemona never had anything to begin with and he wants to drown himself, this makes it clear that Roderigo is unhealthily obsessed with
her. The only part we really hear Desdemona’s own thoughts is in scene 3, where she confesses to everyone why she fell in love with Othello. She also confronts her father and tells him that she will always respect him but her duties are to be completed with her husband by her side now. Desdemona says “My noble father, I do perceive here a divided duty. To you I am bound for life and education. My life and education both do learn me 185 How to respect you. You are the lord of duty. I am hitherto your daughter. But here's my husband. And so much duty as my mother showed to you, preferring you before her father, so much I challenge that I may profess 190 Due to the Moor my lord” (1.3.182-190). Desdemona tells her father that she will always respect him because he gave her the life and education she has now, but that she now belongs with her husband just like her mother picked Brabantio over her father. Her duty is to obey Brabantio’s rules because he is her father, but she now owes Othello her obedience because he is her husband now. A lot of people might think that Desdemona is too young to fall in love, and make the decision of getting married. But a lot of people nowadays are ignorant because there is no right age to fall in love. You can’t control your feelings because if that was so, then heartbreaks would be easy to manage and people would always be with the one they want to be or the one their parents want them to be with. But things don’t always go that way; people catch feelings for other people which lead them to being happy with them. And of course you’re going to be with someone that makes you happy dis-guarding who likes it or not. Desdemona didn’t marry Othello to escape her father strictness, but because she loves him and he makes her happy. She knew that if she were to consult her relationship with Othello to Brabantio, he would not accept it even if Othello was his friend. Desdemona did what she felt was right, and she took an important decision which was getting married and people nowadays don’t get married without being ready to take that responsibility serious.