Elizabeth Gilbert's Sayings

One of my Elizabeth Gilbert’s favorite sayings: “Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions.” You become what you believe you are and this is proved by science and many experiences of international influencers around the world. Affecting other’s emotions is not an easy task. However, when it happens and you really put your fingerprint on someone’s emotions, this would create a great inspirational story that deserves to be heard.
One of my personal experiences that went totally above my expectations is my story with my elder brother who works as a chemical engineer. One day, he came to me saying that he wants to quit his job although he is passionate and committed to it. The reason why he wants to quit is because he is having a hard time adapting to teamwork and that he always get into conflicts with his team members and so here comes the role of emotional intelligence. I tried to convince him not to quit but he did not want to listen and he has
The first thing I asked him about is that if he’s comfortable with his decision regarding the resignation. He seemed not really into it. And so I said:” Group work isn’t that bad. If you are emotionally intelligent enough you will be able to manage it. Did you try to communicate with your team members outside the workplace? The answer is obviously no. creating a bond with your team members outside the organization eases the communication between the team members and increases your productivity. This is called cohesiveness. In addition to that, you get to solve problems from different points of view. Maybe they can observe problems from an angle that you haven’t noticed before. Also, you can break work with high complexity into parts which save you time and effort. One of the reasons I like group work is that you are able to share different perspectives and ideas and establish new approaches to solving