Media outlets and pornography have so much engrained sexual violence into our society, that our language has become just as degrading. Even when used with a casual, harmless intent, the language our society invokes on a daily basis perpetuates sexual violence and our rape culture. We tell people to “go f*ck themselves” when we’re angry. We’ll “tear you a new one” when we’re insulting. So often we hear people in sports talk about winning as making their opponent “their b**ch” or losing as getting “totally raped” by their opponent. “When we consider the fact that 1-in-3 women and 1-in-6 men will be victims of sexual violence, it’s not surprising that it is a massive focal point in our speech. It’s not surprising that threatening sexual assault is the primary way that we engage in verbal warfare (EverydayFeminism 2014).”
Language acts as a catalyst for sexual violence in other ways. On a college campus, sexually degrading terms are used as frequently as a beer bong on game day – excessively and without question. By deeming women sluts, whores or bitches in both sexual and not sexual contexts, our society normalizes patriarchal values and gender inequality. When a woman is called a “slut,” she is dehumanized and objectified – two of the driving forces behind sexual