• Understanding the feelings of the child:
The child will be feeling hurt, ashamed with low self esteem, mistrusting, angry and sometimes even guilty. You must be prepared for all this whilst trying to reassure them and explaining why it’s wrong to be abused.
• Be Supportive:
Showing support towards the child, and having complete respect for them can help them open up and be more willing to talk, try to talk on their level using words they understand.
• Remain calm:
You must try not to get too emotional in front of the child, remain calm avoid verbal contact with the abuser; leave this to outside agencies to deal with, it’s far better to explain the abusers behaviour instead.
• Take Action:
You must contact the police; they have procedures in place that will notify the correct agency that will deal with protection of children. There are four categories of law regarding the protection of children, they are -
1. The child protection