Elie Wiesel's description of the relationship he shared with his father, Shlomo, prior to the Holocaust, shows that it is distant and lacks the chemistry a father and son usually possess. Elie retells that his father did not show signs of encouragement when he wanted to study the Kabbalah: "You are too young for that. Maimonides tells us that one must be thirty before venturing into the world of mysticism, a world fraught with peril. First you must study the basic subjects, those you are able to comprehend" (4). It is evident that Shlomo does not have faith in Elie, which is quite the contrary from typical fathers. Although Elie is not old enough to fully comprehend the Kabbalah, Shlomo, as a father, should support his son and help him achieve his goal. Because Elie does not receive the aid he needs from his father, he resorts to finding someone else, Moishe the Beadle, to guide him. This affects Elie tremendously because it is disappointing to have to search for someone else, other than his father, for guidance in any sensitive subject, such as religion. Elie also tells the readers that his father was very reserved from the rest of the family: "My father was a cultured man, rather unsentimental. He rarely displayed his feelings, not even within his family, and was more involved with the welfare of others than with that of his own kin" (4). The fact that Shlomo was more involved with affairs outside of the family shows that it is certain that Elie never received the affection he needed as a child. Both father and son were like strangers for they knew nothing about each other.
As the days become harsher in the concentration camp for both father and son, however, Elie grows more dependent on