Ryan Bornack
Period 4
Becoming a man is the only thing asked of you when you are born. When you come into the world, you’re not afraid. You’re not worried about being judged, or dealing with responsibilities. You’re not worried about how things work out, or how you get through the day. You’re only worried about what’s in front of your face, and how you take it in. Eventually, you grow older and make decisions based on what you have taken in. These decisions grow harder, and when you become an adult, you have the pressure of the world on your shoulders, managing wealth, health, and love. Sometimes men lose their mind dealing with stress, and fall into being an uncomfortable, non-confident individual, which leads to depression, or lack of motivation. Staying confident is a great way to keep your head up, and don’t let emotions get in the way of what you need to get done. Being confident will help you make better choices, and be less conservative with new opportunities that enter your life. There are multiple ways you can go about maintaining confidence, or gaining confidence.
The first thing you can do is acknowledge that you were once unaware of anything that should hinder your attitude. By growing older and becoming more and more aware of any possible problems, you should become more aware of how well you should be at making solutions. Being a human is all about adapting to situations that you are placed in. as a man, you have to make intelligent choices, and sometimes under pressure. Not everything will be perfect all the time, and by accepting that reality, you should be able to cope to a problem when faced with it. Silence the thoughts that threaten your confidence, and youll have it back.
Next on the list is knowing who you are. Now, knowing who you are is very important for a number of reasons. Going through life, you learn the difference between what is wrong and what is right, and you develop an image of what you