I Love Flirting Essay

In class there was a discussion regarding a couple and their personal issues. The question presented to the class was if the friend says he is in love with his girlfriend, but he is still talking and looking at other females, what type of relationship is it? Intimate or sexuality? Which lead into a discussion of cheating and if the friend actually loves this girl, as he said he did. So why is he still dealing with other females, so should he actually be with a the girl he says he loves.

In the this generation, some people may view cheating as soon as that friend made any physical contact with the female versus other people who finds that the 'innocent' flirting is cheating. This is said because if the friend was truly falling in love with
this girl, there would be no other female that could make him feel that same way as the girl he is falling in love with. Since he is talking to other females, he's eventually going to cheat. Flirting leads to that and since the girl the friend is with is not enough for him to where he feels the need to talk to other females he doesn’t really love her as much as he thinks he does. If you are truly in love with her the friend wouldn’t need to talk to anybody else to feed his needs or to be satisfied. All of that should be done with the girl that he loves, not no side chick.

This friend is with the girl, but is still talking to other people.
As doing so he's not telling the girl of these encounters with the other females. If you can't tell your girl about the encounters doesn’t that mean the friend should feel that these encounters should not be happening. If you cannot tell your girl what you been doing with all these females, it probably is cheating weather you want to admit it or not. However, that’s the thing with this generation many things that use to be viewed as bad are now viewed as good. A male can have a girlfriend and as many females on the side and get praised for it. To some males flirting is not cheating till there is physical interactions or a promise of physical interactions.

The friend at this point is just flirting with other girls but if he can't get what he want and/or need why is he still with her. It could be because she has something that he needs or wants, so he keeps her around to keep that thing that he needs, or just for the sake of not hurting her feelings.

Everybody has a different definition of cheating, so the real question is how do you define cheating. Because flirting with another women is cheating in my head weather its just innocent or fun, and some define flirting as being disrespectful toward the female. If you cannot find the thrill you had for this one girl you obviously lost the appeal you once had at some point in the
relationship.