So when you think about a goal, something you want to achieve or accomplish, your mind might naturally go to what you don't want or what you're afraid of, but you have control over what you focus on, if you'll just exercise it, and I know you can do that.
Some people, when they think of a goal, immediately think about not wanting to be disappointed in case they fail. Studies have shown that people will do almost anything to avoid feeling disappointed. Or, you might think about not wanting to look stupid. You also might think about not wanting to fail. Or you might think about not wanting to do the …show more content…
Here's what you need to understand: if you focus your mind on getting the outcome you want, take action, and keep refining your action-always focusing on the result you want-you really can't fail to get to where you want to go. The only thing that can prevent you from getting what you want is quitting, and if you're focusing on what you want and taking action you're going to be having so much fun you won't want to quit.
So it's crucial that you keep your mind on what you want, and keep it off of such things as not wanting to make a mistake, not wanting to look stupid, not wanting to be disappointed, not wanting to pay the price, and other such negative