Love Language In The Five Love Languages By Gary Chapman

The Love Languages One of the biggest part of communication is how we send and receive messages. How we communicate takes may different forms. According to Author Gary Chapman’s book The 5 Love Languages (1995). “We tend to speak our primary love language, and we become confused when our spouse does not understand what we are communicating.” Words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of services, and physical touches are the languages we are going to cover. The first love language I will review is the words of affirmation. If words of affirmation is your primary love language. It is important that your partner, spouse or friend knows what this language looks like. The words of affirmation is an important language because to the recipient it is important for them to hear appreciation. There are different ways you can communicate words of affirmation. You can send an unexpected text or card, a hand written note. People of this language need you to listen to them actively. Offer encouraging words I
There is nothing more important than spending time with the other person. The best way to show your love if this is you, your spouse, or friends love language is to give this person your undivided attention. Have eye contact. You want to create memorable moments together. Having date night or going on long weekend vacations. The connection you make with other people through spending time together doing small things and one on one interactions with no interruptions. This is what makes you feel important in the relationship. For this love language spending time in large groups or by yourself should be avoided. Fierce Marriage. (2014) If you answer yes to questions like “I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me their undivided attending” and “I appreciate when someone listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me.” Chapman (1995) says these questions are designed to identify this love