Of course there is absolutely nothing wrong with a man loving his mother, but the Mama’s Boy actually live under his mother 24/7. She does everything for him; cook, clean, washes his clothes, finds him a job, brushes his hair, buys him video games, etc. The list goes on and on. Some grown Mama’s Boys will walk around the house naked or sleep in the same bed with their mother. He loves her that much. He almost has an Oedipus Complex where he views his mother as a potential sex partner. He doesn’t only want a girl like his mother, he wants his mother. This is the type of guy who lives with his parents, especially his mother, for an entire lifetime. He never wants to grow up and gets treated like a spoiled teenager. He tends …show more content…
to dress younger than he actually is because he never grew up mentally. He normally plays video games, sit on his butt all day, eat food and become overweight. Some Mama’s Boys even get an allowance in old age. Keep in mind, there are some men who have developmental disabilities and need to live with their mother for medical reasons. These guys don’t count. But if a guy is physically able and mentally capable of working or going to school and doesn’t, then he might be a bona-fide Mama’s Boy. Sometimes The Mama’s Boy will say his mother lives with him instead of the other way around.
Understand that in a lot of these cases, the mother tend to love her son so much that she will hold on to him until old age. Some mothers even asks their sons to move back at home with them because they miss them so much. An example of a Mama’s Boys is Alan from the movie The Hangover. His mother was literally doing everything for him. When she messed up, Alan would check her on it and she completely complied with his requests. Jodi from the movie Baby Boy is another great example. This movie is a bit different because Jodi’s mom actually wanted him to move out the house and he didn’t. It almost became a battle between him and her live-in boyfriend who was getting the attention. One of the reasons women dislike Mama’s Boys is because they always compare the woman to his mother. Women hate this so if he does it, this is a clear sign that he’s a Mama’s Boy.
How To Avoid The Mama’s Boy?
Recognizing and avoiding the Mama’s Boy is fairly easy. All you have to do is look for a guy who seem like he’s middle aged but still acts like a kid, immature in some cases. He is the type of guy who will talk about his mother a lot. In some cases, he still leaves at home with his mother and they do everything together. His mother will play video games with him, smoke cigarettes with him, and even go to nightclubs with him. The Mama’s Boy just seem like a weak excuse for a man.
The ‘I Don’t Like Your Friends’ Guy
The ‘I Don’t Like Your Friends’ Guy is just an egotistical asshole. He doesn’t like you friends because he don’t want to see you happy and having fun with other people. He’s a self-centered bonehead who hates the idea of you being with someone else other than him. This guy is truly frustrated with his own life to the point he is totally insecure. He wants his woman to feel as bad as does with his delusional self. This guy will always find something wrong with each friend you hang out with. The reason for this is because he doesn’t want your friends to start pointing out his flaws. He fears that they’ll start telling you how much of a loser they think he is. After a while you’ll start thinking, “hey, maybe they’re right” and dump him. He doesn’t want this so he’ll talk down about your friends all the time. He doesn’t want the potential of you breaking up with him. If he is doing everything a man supposed to do then there’s no need to worry about the relationship going sour. It wouldn’t matter how many friends get into his woman’s ear, she won’t listen to them because deep inside she knows she has a good man.
Now, on the flip side, there is a possibility that this guy may not like your friends for genuine reasons. There might be bad influences that he recognizes. Women will sometimes spew hate on each other and become very competitive if they see their friends with other guys. Some women will go to the extreme of lying about certain things. These are the types of women who will always create drama by making themselves seem superior to you. So this might be a reason your boyfriend doesn’t like your friends. So the ‘I Don’t Like Your Friends’ Guy may genuinely dislike your friends because are in fact they are bad people. You need to check your friends and decide whether they are bad influences. If they have negative energy, it will sap yours.
One thing to watch out for with The ‘I Don’t Like Your Friends’ Guy is that he may actually have a crush on your friends. He probably really likes them a lot! Hell, he probably already had sex with one of them and don’t want you to find out. He may not want them to snitch and come clean about a previous relationship. With this guy, it could be any reason.
The No Job Guy
Of course, women want a man who has some type of real income coming in because that shows responsibility. A job indicates that he can stand on his own two feet take care of himself and a family. In certain parts of Africa, tribesmen have to kill a lion and bring it back to the father of the woman they want to marry. This shows that he is able to face fear, protect the family, and smart enough to powerfully take down the King of the Jungle. This shows everyone that he can take care of a future generation/offspring. When you hear about Muslims having many wives practicing polygamy, have you ever wondered about that? Normally, the men in these marriages are wealthy and can afford to take care of many wives. Anybody can’t practice polygamy. There’s plenty of broke men living in the hoods/ghettos and trailer parks who have kids up the wazoo and can’t take care of none of them. This is bad. Having a job at least shows that you’re willing to get some money to take of yourself and potentially a family if you have one. The problem with The No Job Guy is that he doesn’t want a job. He is cool with being mediocre. He has absolutely no problem doing menial jobs for a couple of dollars, but he isn’t particularly like The Broke Guy. The Broke Guy wants money but will settle for what he can. However, The No Job Guy doesn’t want to progress in the workforce. He doesn’t care about his well-being or financial freedom. He’s finance free by being broke. Some of the menial jobs the No Job Guy will do are:
• Pick up aluminum cans and sell them at recycling centers.
• Sell cigarettes on street corners.
• Sells his food stamps.
• Do online surveys for gift cards.
• Pass out flyers.
• Get involved with selling drugs on a lower level.
Wash cars out of a bucket.
• Go to school forever but never graduating (Professional student).
• Advertises his insignificant website with ads on it (Real websites that generate a large amount of revenue generally don’t advertise.). Uses adult content such as girls booty shaking to try generate more views/clicks.
Of course there are so many other insignificant jobs The No Job Guy can do but you get the idea. He isn’t a bad guy, he just doesn’t have a job! Him not having a job is hindering progress in his life. He doesn’t want a job because he’s satisfied with just having enough to survive. When it comes to searching or getting a job, he comes up with every excuse in the book. He is just a big ball of lacked motivation and he will be the same way in relationships.
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Stay away from places where guys with no jobs hang out.
Street corners around 10am on a weekday is a good place to avoid. Anywhere around 1pm on a weekday is a good place to avoid. This is because lunch for a working man is over around this time. and this is when No Job Guys saturate the street trying to pick up food items, cigarettes, and weed for the day. Also, a guy with tattoos on his face shows that he might not have a job. There was a story online about a guy who robbed a bank and got caught because he was showing off the money on Facebook. What’s interesting is that during the robbery, he actually used makeup to hide his face tattoos so that he wouldn’t be easily recognizable. Apparently, this guy didn’t have a job and opted for the quick fix and instant gratification of robbing a bank. His girlfriend got charged and sentenced also. Although, face tattoos doesn’t negate employment because there are many jobs one can get with them. One of the greatest boxers of all time Mike Tyson has a face tattoo and he’s a millionaire. There are ex-cons who do telemarketing with tattoos on their faces. Face tattoos doesn’t mean that a person can’t find employment but it definitely decrease their chances significantly. On a relationship note, you want to avoid guys with tattoos on their face and bodies for other reasons as well. Getting tattoos may show a sign of wanting attention, enduring pain because it gives him pleasure, or trying to hide himself by marking up his body with ink.
Maybe, he’s artistic and likes it. All of these can affect a relationship with him.
Another aspect to look for in The No Job Guy is if he talks about video games too much. Now, there are plenty of working people who play videogames for fun. The thing about them is that they don’t play while at work. Video game heads normally don’t have have jobs so the obvious question would be is how they pay their electric bills? Truth is, their parents is probably paying it. These guys could be Mama’s Boys. They could also be broke boys who receive government help. Some of them are also hackers. They might hack PayPal or bank accounts, or become involved in credit card fraud to fuel their video game addiction. They need to buy the latest system, and a lot of game technology and in-game credits cost money. Now, there is a subcategory of video gamers who play for monetary reasons They become a video game testers and give reviews to software creators letting them know any about any kinks or changes that need to be made. These types of guys get paid well.
Another aspect of The No Job Guy is if he’s a sex addict. Some of these guys may not have a job because they’re making money being a gigolo. Hell, they could be gay for pay or play for pay. If a guy is too good in bed and he doesn’t have a job then this might be a red flag. These guys will have sex all day with different type of people to focus their minds away from the fact of being broke. They also have the luxury to talking on the phone to different types of women all day everyday because they have nothing else to do. They have thousands of women’s phone numbers in their free government smartphones. Guys with careers/jobs normally don’t have time for relationships. They’re too busy working. They normally don’t have time juggling many women at once neither. Their lack of focus will get them caught or lose their jobs. The No Job Guy has all the time in the world for this.