While doing this assignment I identified many transactional and generational patterns that are predominant in my family. In my life span, my respect for my grandparents, parents, and other family members were developed through our repeated interactions, which constitute as transactional patterns. Their demeanor, tone of voice, and responses set the tone for how I react and communicate with them today. These patterns are the reasons why we interact so well. The family structure that is present in my family, is another reason why we interact effectively. This structure consists of my father being …show more content…
My mom often tells me stories of how she rarely talked to my dad growing up because he was always working, or sleeping. This became normal for her because this was his schedule for years. She explains how she was always afraid to ask him things when she was younger, throughout the week, because that meant that she had to wake him up. As a child, she always assumed that he would say “no” to anything she asked simply because of this. However, that was not the case; he often agreed with her. My mother told me that they also never really small talked when she was younger either; she did all of this with her mom. Today, my grandfather is retired and does not work that same schedule. Yet their verbal relationship is still the same. It does not really affect my mom because she is used to things being that way, nonetheless, she sometimes wishes things could be