Focusing on negative behaviour will only trigger your own frustrations and aggression causing you to exhibit exactly the behaviour you are striving to stop. By focusing on reinforcing positive behaviour you are therefore modelling the kind of behaviour you feel is appropriate because you are calm, focused and feeling positive…
WHY POSITIVE THOUGHTS WORK SO WELL: The first thing to remember when learning how to use positive phrases correctly is that positive words and phrases carry with them a "positive energy" that can get embedded into your mind and body. In fact, the more positive thoughts you think on a consistent basis, the more you are…
But hey, just look on the bright side. I mean it’s always darkest before the dawn. If you dream it, you can do it. Watch. No? Oh well. America today is decidedly and unwaveringly optimistic, we are positive thinkers. Positive thinking is defined by one of its leading advocates, Dr. Charlene Proctor as “the process of choosing positive emotions to create an outlook that translates into a new or better-chosen reality.” In short, our thoughts and attitude can affect the course of the outside world, so we should strive to be positive to reap positive outcomes, while stifling negativity for the opposite reason. We praise the optimist while shunning the pessimist. But the question is does every cloud have a silver lining? In order to show positive thinking as the dangerous paradigm that it is we will first examine the causes of positive thinking, move onto its effects, and then finally round out with solutions.…
Rodolfo Costa once said; “Cultivate an optimistic mind, use your imagination, always consider alternatives, and dare to believe that you can make possible what others think is impossible” (Goodreads). Remaining positive has always held an important role in my life. I strive to find positives in every negative situation, and remember that I can always learn something from it. Sometimes changing the way you view a situation can make all the difference. Even through times where I have had every reason to give up, I have chosen to keep a positive attitude. I have found that when I decide to do this, it makes me significantly happier, and I take much more away from the situation.…
Three ways to be positive are smile at people, use your manners like please, thank you, and you’re welcome, and having a good attitude. Two ways we are not being positive is not using manners and complaining about an assignment or project. One goal I have to be a more positive person is to smile more.…
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Respond positively: When negative feeling, thoughts come to your mind, focus on keeping your thoughts positive. Even if an unwanted situation doesn't change, you can attempt to change the way you think and behave.…
Bob Marley once said, "Don't worry about a thing because every little thing is going to be all right child." The words of legend Bob Marley speaks wisdom into our souls with music that good things never come to negative people. So leave everything in the hands of God. Negativity poisons the soul like a venomous snake. Positivity is the key to living a successful life. What does it mean to remain positive? If you ever get a bad grade on a test instead of getting mad, go home and study so you can be prepared for the next test. When you fall do not lay there and pout, you get back up and try again. A positive attitude is continuing to push and think positive when you have fallen and think your are done. Good karma and success comes having…
It is pretty common to hear someone say: “Think Positive!” to someone who is feeling down or is worried, but most people don’t actually take these words seriously. When I look back at the times where I am the most positive I am always in my blue…
“Thinking positive thoughts will always empower you! Do it enough and it will change your life!” This quote is from Timothy Pina who in 2003 had a near-death experience which changed him. He is now a successful author who has devoted his time to writing children's fiction, poetry, and screenplays to help other people realize the importance of overcoming life obstacles. Having a positive attitude like Timothy Pina is the best response to conflict because there is a greater chance of the conflict ending peacefully and people moving on to improve their lives. This is very important because in our current lives we should try and avoid violence as much as possible.…
In the article titled “Positive Thinking Tips: 10 Ways To Overcome Negativity And Become More Optimistic,” author Carolyn Gregoire discusses how anyone can acquire positive thinking with some personal motivation. Carolyn lists ten techniques to help individuals obtain positive thinking by eliminating negative thinking and taking control of our own thought patterns.…
According to the Mayo Clinic, “Positive thinking often starts with self-talk. Self-talk is the endless stream of unspoken thoughts that run through your head. These automatic thoughts can be positive or negative. Some of your self-talk comes from logic and reason. Other self-talk may arise from misconceptions that you create because of lack of information” (Positive Thinking). Being optimistic is absolutely mental. The Mayo Clinic shares the most effective ways to becoming optimistic, “If you want to become more optimistic and engage in more positive thinking, first identify areas of your life that you usually think negatively about, whether it's work, your daily commute or a relationship. You can start small by focusing on one area to approach in a more positive way” (Positive thinking). In order to stay positive the person needs to know they can get over the challenges, “One fundamental attitude is to presume that all problems can be solved and we possess in us the ability to solve the problem in hand. Adopting such an attitude, we would explore all resources and go the extra mile to get things done” (Yew). It is possible to stay positive when conditions are not running…
I had always been an optimistic individual and tended to lean towards the “bright side” to every situation. I realized that I was responsible for my own happiness and dwelling on the negatives would only serve to cut down on my happiness and limit the scope of my experiences.…
In the Army we have training we must conduct twice a year called Resiliency training. The focus of the training is to assist us in having a more positive mind set. I personally deal with negative people by countering anything they say with my own positive comments. I do my best to point out the positive side in every situation. However, sometimes it does not have the desired affect. I have had people get mad and tell me that its unrealistic to always see the positive in a negative situation.…
Negativity is the number one enemy that is against positivity. So much positive thinking can lead a person to be weak physically and mentally. The author of The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can’t Stand Positive Thinking, says that “ positive thinking has become a sort of allergy to anything negative.” (Newcomer). People believe that…