My family moved from Michigan back to Ohio in 2004. At first, things went smoothly and we were figuring things out. But after about 8 months, I wasn’t so naïve. I was walking to school with my older brother, who was in 7th grade at the time, and I was in 2nd grade. He was fruastrated because my parents had a fight. Being the curious 8 year old I was, I asked him, “Why were they fighting?” Troy snapped back at me, “Because we’re poor!” I immediately became confused. How could we be poor? We had food, a home, and clothes. Did poor people have homes, food to eat, and clothes on their back? Troy continued to …show more content…
That was a speed bump we weren’t expecting. Financial issues aren’t the only things that can be unexpected and difficult. There are emotional speed bumps too.
When my family moved back to Ohio I felt like my world was collapsing in on me. I was 3 years old when we moved to Michigan, so everything that I really knew and remembered was in Michigan. My house, my friends, school, parks… everything. I was seven years old when I was told that everything that I knew was going to change in less than a month. That’s a big change for someone of that age. My first few days at Smith Elementary were rough. I didn’t know anyone and I didn’t know my surroundings. After a year of being at Oakwood I was familiar with the school and town. But I still felt out of place. I made friends but I didn’t make any strong connections with anyone. As the years went on I moved from group to group. Once Junior High started I was lonely. I had tried the cliques, gotten in trouble because of them; and I was still alone. That year was full of nights with tears. When my brother left for college at the end of my 7th grade year I was devastated. He was my best friend. How was I suppose to last without him? Well truth be told, I didn’t. My grades began slipping; I went from being a straight A student to B’s and C’s. Along with that I began lying frequently and getting in trouble. I was lost and confused. Being