Personal Narrative: Do I Have The Ultimate Right To Be Rude

Do I Have the Ultimate Right to Be Rude?

Rudeness constitutes a state of mind rather than a behavioral trait. Certainly, I do not simply wake and decide that I will be rude to the barista making my coffee, or the driver the cut me off and I later encountered at the gas station. Different examples and scenarios can be used to discuss the issue; however, it goes beyond a person’s willingness to behave in a cordial manner. Being polite is a quality and “life is better when we live by these rules” (Way). We have different threshold for tolerance; still, can you be bothered at such extent that your limits are crossed? We can come up with unlimited excuses to justify our rudeness, even when it is unjustifiable. It is a fact that every individual argues at some point and such argument can be the breaking point for this behavioral trait to be assumed. People do not listen to understand, they listen “for weakness in logic to leap on, point they can dissert to make others look bad” (Tannen). I consider myself an introvert person, since I sort everything out by scrutinizing my ideas and exploring the different points of viewed aroused by my behavior; therefore, when I get myself involved in an argument I know where I stand. Arguing with my sister, it is as complicated as
From my point of view, being rude to a disrespectful person it is acceptable. My job requires a great deal of people skills; providing costumer service is a must and I need to deal with disrespectful costumers on a daily basis. Angry costumers approach me to complain and express their disappointment, which I understand in certain situations. Nevertheless, when they stand up in front of my and insult my integrity and persona being rude is my last resort. Restaurants are characterized by their daily and the stress it brings into the place; therefore, the employees may be moody or prone to be rude. Undoubtedly, the ultimate weapon to defy disrespect is