Pros And Cons Of Open Adoption

The best things in life come free to us without asking for them. As a child, our parents are one of the most important and fundamental that keep us going in our life. However, some children do not have the privilege to have their birth parents around. Through adoption, children find permanency and parents whom can care for them to prove them with support. When birth parents are unable to fulfill their roles, adoptive parents provide the care the children will need for a long term. Adoption helps children in which a new family is created and looks for the best interest for the children to life his/ her best life. Adoption is not easy and can bring risks because no one is aware of how the children will react in the future once the child is aware that he/she was adopted. It is a risk for the adoptive parents because the child can either grow to hate them or to love them and admire them for taking the role as parents for the child. However, there are more openness in adoption, such as closed adoption meaning “all information is kept confidential, and there is not contact between the birth and the adoptive parents (Tower, 2013). The other alternative is an open adoption, in which the adoptive parents get the chance to meet and usually stay in touch with the birthparents of the child. I believe open adoption can be the most beneficial for
The child will not come to think the worse or have less feelings of abandonment, as a child we like to know everything and the reason why it happens. Open adoption will help child have a better understanding of reasons for his/her placement. The child will have the opportunity to ask the big question to the birth parents, “why was I placed for adoption?” Nothing better than knowing every truth about your history and not living a life full of hidden secrets or lies. The adoptee within an open adoption can have more support and love