Psycho-sexual Development
Marjorie Ann M. Bathan July 25, 2014
Experiences about Psychosexual Stage
Psychosexual Stage is the stage that is based on an organ that gives pleasure during a certain part of development. This organ is an erogenous zone during that stage of life that can make us feel good. The psychosexual stage has five different stages, namely oral stage, anal stage, phallic stage, latency stage and genital stage. The first stage is oral stage; experiencing this stage makes me feel that my mouth and lips are the center of pleasure. I experienced being fixated, like I was over eating, talking too much and biting sarcasm.
The second psychosexual stage is anal stage, which we can experience when we are two to three years of age. We tend to eliminate waste any time and anywhere. This problem can be solve through what we call “toilet training”. Learning to do so can help individual to develop pleasure of holding their waste to please their mother’s. Some individual are late bloomers and they tend to learn toilet training until they were five years old. I remember when I was 3 years of age, I am already trained about this “toilet training” that’s why my parents told me one of the unforgettable words I heard, “very good! we don’t need you to wear diaper na”
There are lot of advantages learning toilet training during anal stage, the best of the advantages is the lesser use of diaper. The third stage is phallic stage; this can be experienced when we are around four to six years of age. At this age, we learned the difference between male and female. During phallic stage, male gets jealous of his father and feels like wanting to replace him. Male individuals at this age can also feel castration anxiety, the fear of castration meaning being afraid to be circumcised. On the other hand, female individuals feel like blaming their mother for not giving them pennies like the male one’s have. I experience this blaming thing when I tried to pee like my brother.
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Experiences about Psychosexual Stage
Psychosexual Stage is the stage that is based on an organ that gives pleasure during a certain part of development. This organ is an erogenous zone during that stage of life that can make us feel good. The psychosexual stage has five different stages, namely oral stage, anal stage, phallic stage, latency stage and genital stage. The first stage is oral stage; experiencing this stage makes me feel that my mouth and lips are the center of pleasure. I experienced being fixated, like I was over eating, talking too much and biting sarcasm.
The second psychosexual stage is anal stage, which we can experience when we are two to three years of age. We tend to eliminate waste any time and anywhere. This problem can be solve through what we call “toilet training”. Learning to do so can help individual to develop pleasure of holding their waste to please their mother’s. Some individual are late bloomers and they tend to learn toilet training until they were five years old. I remember when I was 3 years of age, I am already trained about this “toilet training” that’s why my parents told me one of the unforgettable words I heard, “very good! we don’t need you to wear diaper na”
There are lot of advantages learning toilet training during anal stage, the best of the advantages is the lesser use of diaper. The third stage is phallic stage; this can be experienced when we are around four to six years of age. At this age, we learned the difference between male and female. During phallic stage, male gets jealous of his father and feels like wanting to replace him. Male individuals at this age can also feel castration anxiety, the fear of castration meaning being afraid to be circumcised. On the other hand, female individuals feel like blaming their mother for not giving them pennies like the male one’s have. I experience this blaming thing when I tried to pee like my brother.
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