Romeo And Juliet Blame

The deaths and tragedy of Romeo and Juliet were avoidable. Throughout the play Romeo and Juliet have been bossed around by their parents and they’ve been pulled apart and they wanted to be together permanently. So, their idea was to fake their deaths so they could finally be together with no one interfering, but the plan didn’t go as well as they’d hoped. Romeo and Juliet put their lives in other people’s hands and they did not take responsibility for themselves. Romeo and Juliet are to blame for their own deaths.
They should have worked out their own problems instead of going to Friar Lawrence and the Nurse. In act 2, scene 5. Romeo and Juliet go to Friar Lawrence to get married. Why couldn’t Romeo and Juliet just wait a couple more years
So when they learned that relationships were hard they couldn't deal with it so they wanted to run away from their problems. For example in Act 4, scene 1 when Juliet goes to Friar lawrence to get a poison to fake her death with.
The reason it is Romeo and Juliet’s fault and not any other people of thing is because Romeo and Juliet were the ones in the relationship and Romeo and Juliet were the people who chose to kill themselves. Not the nurse or Friar Lawrence, or even fate. Fate didn’t choose for them to die they were the ones who physically went to friar lawrence or went to the apothecary to get drugs to kill themselves with. Romeo and Juliet’s parents wanted them to get married to other people because they did not know about Romeo and Juliet’s relationship. If Romeo and Juliet were truthful about who they didn’t and did want to marry, then maybe their parents wouldn’t have forced them to marry other people. Also if Romeo and Juliet got married in public maybe it would break the feud because Romeo and Juliet would be disappointed in their family and their family would want them to be