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Source Analysis Kelly Musick
Tiffany Selva
Vanessa Ballmer
English 1301
10 October 2012
Source Analysis #1
Kelly, Musick. "Are Both Parents Always Better Than One?Parental Conflict and Young Adult Well Being." Rural New York Minute [New York] 04 2009, n. pag. Web. 10 Oct. 2012. <http://devsoc.cals.cornell.edu/cals/devsoc/outreach/cardi/publications/upload/04-2009-RNYM.pdf>. I think that this source will give me the pro’s and con’s I need for my paper. It will tell me why some people think it’s better to live with both parents and why some say one parent is best. Kelly Musick is an Associate Professor in the Department of Policy Analysis and Management in Cornell University. She studies the patterns of family and their well-being. She believes that two parents


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