Interaction
Interaction
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The effects of domestic violence on our victims and survivors are enormous, and impossible to understand or measure without actually experiencing it. They carry those burdens and the aftermath with them every day—pessimism, hopelessness, aggravation, and even denial. The impact of the abuse is great, and…
Often, by the time a couple enters into marriage counseling the couple has been participation in a cycle of destructive behavior ranging from, anger, hostility criticism, communication issues, and so forth. It is reported that more than 40% of clients who seek psychotherapy of any kind state marital distress and the reason (Gurman and Fraenkal,…
The study of forgiveness in this research article leads us down a path of insightful hopefulness for reconciliation, peace, trust, self-esteem and greater self-actualization. Along with humanistic values this article gives the reader a deeper comfort in the mercies that is given from a greater high power when forgiveness is asserted. The overall premise of “The Forgiving Community,” as an initial model was a great starting point for greater research. Within the article we see why a basic theory could be important and should be implemented, especially in the case of reaching our children before a culture of unforgiveness and grudges engulf them.…
This paper is a comprehensive evaluation of an article entitled “Forgiveness: A Perception and Motivation Study Among Married Adults.” The researchers of this study are Jose Orathinkal, Alfons Vansteenwegen, Roger Burggraeve. This paper will attempt critique and evaluate all pertinent and assigned elements within this article. DDuring this comprehensive evaluation we will disclose the strengths and weaknesses of this research, its methods, results its possible limitations and future uses. This paper will seek to disclose the viability, structure and the construction of this article as it pertains to the perception of a reader and its validity to be utilized for future use, as well as the need for further evaluation as it pertains to the subject matter and problems discussed. Does this article satisfy the necessary elements, while evaluating the necessary elements of the study to obtain relevant results that disclose answers to the question posed by this study; did the article cover the topic in specific terms or general terms?…
According to the Oxford Dictionary, the definition of forgive is to stop feeling angry or resentful toward someone for an offense, flaw, or mistake. However, there is a deeper meaning to this. Contrary to some of Harold S. Kushner’s statements, I believe that forgiveness is as beneficial for the victim of the crimes as it is for the offender. In fact, I am far more inclined to agree with Jose Hobday’s views. He states that…
Women who are victims of domestic violence often have multiple barriers to overcome before they choose to end the violent relationship. While in an abusive relationship, victims often don't go because they are threatened by the abuser (Ramsey, 2013). The women are often afraid of the perpetrator's retaliation if they report the abuse (Al-Natour, Qandil, & Gillespie, 2015). Women fear being killed by their abuser and harm coming to their children. Fear is the way through which abusers control their victims. Emotional control forces the victims to fear the harm that could happen to her and the people close to her. The victim will bear all the abuse to protect her children. The constant state of fear gives the victims a feeling of panic. Living in panic in the relationship often causes the victims to lose their confidence in themselves. When the victims lose their confidence, they begin to live their lives to make their abusers happy. The victims will start to neglect their needs and desires to ensure that the abuser is…
As human beings we are often reluctant to let go of our anger and unwilling to forgive others. This becomes especially true in the case of loved ones or family members. The poem, “How Do We Forgive Our Fathers?,” written by Dick Lourie, addresses the different dilemmas associated with a child forgiving his/her father. In his six-stanza poem, the poet discusses how a child should forgive their father for traumatic events imposed on the child. This includes reasons for forgiveness, appropriate time to forgive, and whether or not to even forgive at all. Detailed through the different stanzas, the poem suggests that until one learns how to appropriately forgive another for wrongful behavior, they will never be able to let go of resentment and find inner peace.…
Smith, S.M., McCollum, E.E. and Amanor-Boadu, Y. (2012). Systemic perspectives on intimate partner violence treatment. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 38(1), 220-240.…
Instead of focusing on the negative outcome of sexual abuse, the focus is shifted to looking at individuals overcoming trauma. With post-traumatic recovery individuals will be able to have a positive experience. They changed up the post-traumatic model so that they can see the attachment style, gender, and time since trauma, so that the individual will have a better recovery. It is explained that recovery from sexual abuse takes many years. Professionals want to get a better understanding of the pathways that assist recovery, so that there will be an increase of positive outcome.…
Cited: Shapiro, B.. "Let go of the past: The benefits of forgiveness." Washington Jewish Week, September 22, 2011, http://www.proquest.com/ (accessed April 5, 2012).…
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For example, in Ahrens (2006) experiment, women reported that being silenced was a direct result of the accumulation of blaming, and insensitive reactions from others and from community system. Similarly, inappropriate support (i.e. from family and friends) that is intended to be helpful often results in hurtful or simply not what the survivor needs at that moment. Researchers Herbert and Dunkel (1992) argued that intentionally negative reactions (e.g. blaming) and unintentional negative reactions (advice from a friend or family member) both are ineffective support attempts. Ahrens (2006) study’s results revealed that most of the survivors described interactions with family and friends were inadequate for overcoming their own feelings of self-blame. The survivors end up internalizing many of the cultural narratives about rape that emphasize the culpability of the victim. When support providers were not able to give adequate support, the victims’ reactions were self-silencing, choosing to censor themselves and stay silent because they considered the experience to be shameful and stigmatizing (Ahrens,…
Leslie Morgan-Steiner, the author of Crazy Love and guest of TED Talks, didn’t believe she was an abused woman until, as she describes, “one final, sadistic beating that broke through my denial. I realized that the man who I loved so much was going to kill me if I let him” (Morgan-Steiner). Once a woman decides she needs to leave, she is faced with many environmental obstacles, psychological barriers, and social stigmas. She will need a safe location, money, and support from the justice system. Leaving is one of the most dangerous actions a woman can take. She is 75% more likely to be killed after she leaves. Most women are not successful the first time they try to leave a relationship, averaging five to seven attempts with each attempt increasingly more dangerous. (Halket et al. 36). Once she has escaped, she may be shunned and looked down upon. Abused women have been stereotyped as “grisly headlines, self-destructive women, damaged goods,” and it is often implied that we chose to fall in love with a man who beat us…
References: Najavits, L. M. (2012, August 14). Couple’s therapy appears to decrease ptsd symptoms, improve relationship. Retrieved from http://media.jamanetwork.com/news-item/couples-therapy-appears-decrease-ptsd-symptoms-improve-relationship/…