I had the burden of worrying about losing my grandmother on my back and taking care of my grandfather. My priorities were always them. I went straight home after school every day to either visit my grandma or help around the house. This is something a lot of kids have to go through, sadly, so this situation probably doesn’t stand out. The thing is, I worked so hard to power through this. Sooner or later, my grandmother got better. I had just graduated from the group therapy program. My grandfather came to therapy with me sometimes so he could understand how I was feeling and understand how to help himself. I thought things would finally go back to what I considered “normal.”
I was just about to go into high school, it was the summer before freshman year when my grandfather got sick. And by sick, I mean I walked in on him purple in the face, dying in front of me. I had to call 911, I had to get my disabled grandmother out of bed because she used to be a nurse and I didn’t know how to start compressions. We still don’t know what really triggered this sudden attack. He was just napping. He had told me to wake him up in an hour and that’s what I had gone