Why Do We Need Disobedience

I have to recognized that we- human beings – can't act as the dictates of reason and conscience in “our fear of being lonely or ostracized, or facing other unpleasant consequences”, but it does not mean that we do not have the option. It does not mean that we always are forced to choose obedience if may not like the choices we face. I believe that we can still make something different, otherwise we always have the option of being disobedient, as long as we are willing to face the consequences of our disobedience. In following paragraphs, I will mention some reasons to support my point. In daily lives, there are countless situations in which human beings have to make choices: obedience or disobedience. The situations which make
problems, often one in which you have to make a very difficult choice are when you are put into a dilemma: whether you can deal with the consequence of our own choice by yourself or not. No matter how you choose, any option has an inevitable consequence of it, perhaps good or bad, both beneficial or detrimental. So, what we have to face to face with is not the choices: being obedient or not, but the unavoidable consequence of each selection. If so, we are ready to confront with outcomes of our selections, then we totally have a right to choose disobedience. For example, sometimes our parents compel me to do something we don't want, but we still obey. Then, we wonder why we cannot make a different decision, why others can but we cannot. Like me, I almost follow my parents' choices of my subject, my school, my job, even my friends. I used to comply with all these things without any protest until I feel tired of doing what they told me. I blamed them for all discomfort that I had to endure during the past, but then I realized that I ran away for a long time. I hided from our fear of being responsible for my own outcomes of our disobedience. It seems that I rely on my parents too much,and I finally decide to choose “disobedience” It goes without saying that it's time to solve any consequences, even tragic results on my own. “Willing to face the consequence is willing to face our fear”.
We are prepared to be responsible for our action. We are prepared to confront with the worst cases. It's time to overcome ourselves, overcome our fear of being unsafe or ostracized. We no longer fear that means there is no pressure, no threat, no constraint, and we can feel free to choose what we want. For instance, you are belong to a certain group because of similar thought, however, the group tends to influence your thought and you are induced to do something as a group member that you dislike. In this case, we completely have a right to disobey if you accept the state of being excluded from the group. Disobedience becomes a thing of courage. One must have the self-confidence and assurance within himself to be independent from authority and stand alone against the group. For another example, people are not easy to struggle with partiality where they work at, as they worry about coping with unemployment. However, there are still few others who are ready to stand up , to fight for their benefits. They are ready to be fired to tell the truth. They are representatives for people who dare to say what they thought, even under authority, peer pressure, or coercive
power. I have to totally disagree with the statement that human beings always are forced to choose obedience. From my viewpoint, anyone has a freedom of choice because final decision is in our hands. Like other democratic rights of human: the right to live, the pursuit of happiness, freedom of speech,...human being always have chances to sit and think what we should do. We are so scared that we have to choose obedience . This is still our decision, our choice. If we are brave enough to deal with something unpleasant, then we have a different opportunity to go to different road. Instead of obedience, we can decide our destiny, our life, our future if not we can receive unpredictable consequences. Such people are sometimes referred to as non conformist, but such tags does not change their minds and they abide by what they feel is right. Obviously, decisions involving marriage , family and significant other can be heartbreaking. Here, if people always follow what they are told so that they do not allow themselves to consider the situation from every side, the results might be devastating. There are miserable scenarios that we have to regret the rest of life because not being disobedient. To get married is a prime example. To take this quickly is foolish. The process of deciding takes time and prudence. I realized that a life predicated on being obedient and taking order is wrong lifestyle. Living in such a way reduces our ability to think. Surely, it forms a habit: It is unthinkable that we would not comply with order. What will happen to people who cannot be independent ! We can only depend on other people, only suffer fear of rejection, loneliness, and failure. Someday, they are drained of strength, exhausted and breathless through their hunt for support, someday they all regret having wasted their health and efforts in obedience in their fear of facing unpleasant consequences. Then they find themselves in a state of distress, their minds become weaker. They are in the long run parasites on families and society. On the contrary, perhaps the fundamental way to achieve success is first to be sure of what you want to do with life and then to be sure that you are capable of doing it. Nothing more interesting than that we are the master of the game of our lives. Independence always brings about overflowing vitality. We never endure the fear of a solitary life because we can do what we like to do and meet other people who have the same view and target. Lastly, that blanket statement do not ring true. A decision can be catastrophic if made without thinking. The wrong decision may lead to heartache just as the wrong professional decision could lead to death. In another word, the wrong decision and the worst possible result are both inextricably wound up together. It is, then, wise to think in advance. Believing my idea is superior, “willing to face, we always have the option”, it is tempting to conclude that a good way of educating the public is to say “ no” to evil and injustice. Obedience is a virtue which our elderly teaches us; however, we also are taught to be courageous to stand against a wrong. It is always convenient to say “yes”. To say “no” to disobey what we dislike is a matter of pride and displays a valor of thought and a brevity of action.