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Why Should Kids Get Trophies
Should Kids get Trophies? Do you do things for the fun of it or for a prize? Many kids think they should get a trophy. Parents think otherwise they think getting a trophy is sending the wrong message. Trophies aren’t for everyone and everything, because trophies lose their meaning if everyone gets one, also trophies aren’t effective ways for coaches to bribe the team to do better, and you should do things for fun not for a prize. Trophies aren’t effective ways for coaches to bribe the team to do better. “Receiving a pat on the back or a thumbs-up from a coach… any show of appreciation is what keeps kids coming back.” “Kids need to know they don’t need to win every time. It’s O.K. to lose, to make a mistake.” I can relate the evidence

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