The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao includes many instances of the novel’s protagonist, Oscar, falling in love with unattainable women, as well as other moments where Oscar feels pity for himself. Oscar spends most of the novel looking for a woman who will love him back, and his self-pity comes as a result of his failure to find a woman. Unlike many of his Dominican peers, who do well with the ladies, Oscar is not very handsome, nor is he able to talk to many girls. Oscar is also an avid fan of comics and science fiction, an interest that many people fin d unappealing. Oscar seems to be resisting the idea that Dominican men should be great womanizers who pride themselves on sleeping with a great number of women. Oscar seems to have gentlemanly intentions of having a meaningful relationship with a woman, unlike many other Dominican men. Oscar’s entire persona goes against his upbringing in a Dominican community in New Jersey, as he is the complete opposite of a stereotypical Dominican male.…
Mixing locations and time periods allowed Díaz to create a novel with high political and cultural significance. The characters challenge the social norms of their place and time, for example Lola presenting herself as a “Banshees-loving punk chick” to the dismay of her mother, and in a completely different time period Lola’s grandfather doing the unspeakable and challenging the rule of the Dominican dictator (54). For characters like Beli and Abelard, Oscar and Lola’s grandfather, their storylines draw on the impact that the government, especially the ruthless ruler, Trujillo, has on their lives. Further down the line though Oscar, Lola and Yunior do not have to live under a harsh dictatorship in the Dominican Republic, they do have to cope with the always-increasing social pressures of growing up in America as Hispanic immigrants, exhibiting the deviations in social and cultural aspects of life as time…
The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz is about a Dominican family who lives in Paterson New Jersey and they have been through many tribulations in life. The theme I chose for my essay is Fuku and Love, in the novel these two themes were mainly the reason why the characters got their self in situations they could not overcome. The novel is overall about finding love and overcoming the family curse.…
Love in L.A.” is a story that is set on the streets of Los Angeles in the heat of traffic. Love should be an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment (DK). But in the short story Love in L.A., the definition of love is the exact opposite. Through “Jake,” the protagonist’s definition of “love” is expressed in different fashions, none results in anything positive outcome; He portrays being lazy, irresponsible, somewhat poor, and perhaps something of a scam artist, looking for his freedom. “Jake was thinking about this freedom of his so much that when he glimpsed its green light he just went ahead and stared bye-bye to the steadily employed. (Gilb 311)” Due to his lack of attention and a crash, he is forced to meet a young girl named Mariana. Mariana is foreign, not from Los Angeles, and obviously quite naïve. This crash of fate leads to the noticeably smooth and very dishonest Jake getting away with fraud, leaving Mariana to handle the damage he caused. Lie, deception, and fantasy are a few of the main themes portrayed in "Love in L.A.".…
The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Díaz unmasks the effects of politics, diaspora, and gender in the development of the hyphenated Dominican-American culture. Trujillo’s regime reveals the impact of militarism and dictatorship on a culture and people. Díaz represents how the violent and corrupt nature of the Trujillato shapes gender stereotypes and sexuality and the portrayal of Oscar illustrates the discriminations against hetero-normative masculinities. Díaz also represents the role of Dominican diaspora and worries migrant characters encounter when moving from their homeland in pursuit of the American dream. However, Díaz exhibits the inevitable failure migrants face when attempting to completely rid themselves of their cultural identities, admitting, “Santo Domingo will always be there. It was in the beginning and it will be there at the end,” (210).…
Often time, love is the source of violence in a relationship. Some people become violent because of jealousy or heartache. In The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, by Junot Diaz, the fuku is a curse which revolves around the Cabral family and Oscar believed it is a bad luck for him. Oscar falls in love with the girls easily that leads him to his death. The characters from the novel were physically abused because of love. In The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, there is a complicated relationship between love and violence. While love was the cause of great violence and danger in the novel, it also freed them of the fuku, the family curse.…
Why does society as a whole stand for everything it fights? In a world that criminalizes bullying and preaches about equality, do social crimes slip through the cracks unnoticed. It is true that things we are afraid of draw our attention, and we are dedicated to crushing our fears aren’t we? Did a kindergartener know what a terrorist was before September Eleventh? No, and he likely wouldn’t have been able to locate the Middle East anymore than his house on a map. The collapse of the Soviet Union ended the thought of an immediate end of the world by nuclear war. A war we thought we have swept under the rug is the war on social injustice. America is the land of the free, because of the great lengths we go to protect ourselves, but as a result we have ostracized our own people and abandoned our founding principals.…
During an interview with Guernica, Junot Diaz described his goal for his short-story “The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao,” which ultimately became a novel by the same name: “I wanted to talk about gender. I wanted to talk about masculinity. I wanted to talk about race” (Kolinsky 2012). The story’s narrator, Yunior, represents the “stereotypical” Dominican man, in which Yunior himself describes as a “player” (Diaz, 2000). Within the Dominican culture, the ideal man is expected to possess a very strong sense of masculine pride and be a powerful, dominant figure, while the ideal woman is expected to be fragile and dependent on men for most tasks. “The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao” challenges these beliefs by incorporating characters that fit perfectly into the masculine and feminine norms, such as Yunior and Rodolfo for example, while other characters, such as Lola and Oscar do not fit into these desired norms. In the story, characters have to live up to the expectations of their assigned gender role or…
In The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz, isolation is a common theme that contributes to character development throughout the novel. Junot Diaz, in his narration of Oscar’s life through the eyes of Yunior, induces the idea that isolation is a self-imagined way for a character or person to justify his/her differences from society and the people around them. While there are outside forces that contribute to the feeling of isolation, such as cultural differences, immigration, and gender stereotypes and expectations; in the end, Diaz firmly believes that a person’s feeling of isolation is a crutch to reason why he/she does not fit in.…
What is love? Often enough, as a hormone-struck teenager, I am lectured on what love is not. According to my mother, father, grandmother, aunts, uncles, and every adult figure that has ever made a guest-star appearance in the long-winded romance novel that is my life, love is NOT the warm cuddly feeling I get when I see a cute boy at school. Love is NOT holding hands on the playground; is not caring an abnormal amount for a favorite pair of shoes. I feel as though a vast amount of time is spent describing the negative space of a person’s heart, and not long enough spent defining its shape. Although Pastor Ostrum follows suit with his anti-definition of what love is not, he definitely strikes a chord in my heart when he says that “love is not something we wait to have happen to us, but something we do.” Many might disagree, might argue that love is a two-way street; that in order to give we must first receive. However, in the novel “Until They Bring the Streetcars Back,” by Stanley Gordon West, Cal Gant demonstrates this principle of giving time and time again.…
Oscar thought that the same thing could happen with each girl that he had will be with the other too, but in first moment that he meet them wants that every girl give him the same love and he doesn't care about their past or something they are how dont want to share things where maybe they can be judged. Ybon is one of them how had a difficult past, she can't be herself, she have a job that doesn't like it but not have other options because her past conviction; Ybon is not interesting in no body but Oscar only wants fall in love with her and have a story of fairy tales when he doesn't love himself because if he does, he could stoped all those things that brought him consequences. “[narrator] Here we go again: Oscar and Ybon at her house, Oscar…
Oscar seems to fall for every beautiful woman he meets with his heart, and thinks…
Society constantly reminds us that we cannot depend on emotional survival alone, but must also rely on someone’s help such as feeling comfort of someone else as protection. Whether it is to hold someone’s hand, lie in bed and stare at the ceiling, guide oneself in the darkness, we all need some kind of assurance that we are needed. In Memories of my Melancholy Whores by Gabriel García Marquez , a simple desire of a nameless Sunday column writer in Colombia, who was soon going to celebrate his ninetieth birthday by taking the virginity of a young girl. The columnist was wrong. He soon comes to learn that what he always needed was not the 514 women that he had sexual intercourse with since his twentieth birthday; but the care and love that this one young fourteen year old girl offered him. As too, in the novel Blindness by José Saramago; the nameless ophthalmologist struggles to be help to anyone, including himself after the disease “White Blindness” spreads throughout a country. With the help of his wife, he and other people come to care for someone who helps them without having to wait for anything in return.…
According to , “When you first start to read the story the protagonist seems to be experimenting with new things and new experiences. She is trying to get to know who she is as a woman in a sexual aspect. The author, in the beginning, uses short sentences with a more cheerful vocabulary. As the short story further continues, the sentences are much longer and the negativity shows. Her vocabulary is no longer cheerful. It is as if the protagonist is trying to get over an unbearable and painful relationship, but doesn’t know how”. In my opinion, I think the protagonist is afraid of loving again so keeps her emotions hidden. She also keeps her distance and by doing so she turns to lustful activities with multiple partners. The protagonist is lacking some kind of love, she may not even love herself. If she cannot love herself then how can she love at all? The protagonist has a emptiness that she wants to fulfill, but does not know quite know how to. She feels sad and alone, even rejected in several different ways. She is feeling used by her multiple partners, yet deep down inside she wants them to love her in some kind of way, not just in a sexual way. The protagonist wants that sense of security and tender lovingness she is lacking in her life. She doesn’t seem to realize how badly she wants to fill that empty void she knows she has. I think that the protagonist feels she doesn’t even exist, her self esteem is very low and she has no confidence in herself. This could also mean she had some kind of family issues as a child. She may also be lacking love from her parents or they never showed her love. If that is the case…
In Erich Fromm's novel, The Art of Loving, the author tackles the task of defining what exactly is meant by the word love and what it means to love someone. He begins by presenting his theories on love and how they apply to the different areas and aspects of life. He then explains how these theories should be applied. The author's account is very convincing and gives readers a clear understanding of what exactly love is and how they should use his explanation in developing their own love lives.…