Some will do anything to sling offensive phrases at the illegal immigrants in their area, or even find people that have more bravery to call the police to capture them. Few people in the US, called mandated reporters, call the police to report if anything is wrong, such as an abusive marriage, abused children, and even calling Immigration services to deport an illegal migrant. Added to that, there are simply people who seem trustworthy, but then may feel threatened by the presence of others different from them, and they end up acting especially cruel to those particular people and report them. If the fear of abuse or deportation does not scare Central Americans enough, than it is the fact of leaving their family and breaking them apart; they would leave their children with other relatives, growing without the true love of their mother or father, growing to hate each other and failing to protect one another. Families split as a result of immigration often never feel the same, some sense of betrayal or abandonment within the family will always exist no matter how hard the family tries to reconnect. Children and parents no longer know what the other likes, they do not know the habits of the other, and memories can only last so long before they become a dream of what they desire their family is like. The longer a family is apart, the more damage they sustain, including the filling of places with new spouses. Even more betrayal, in the sense that someone simply could not wait for their significant other to either return or join them in the United States.
Upset at the actions of migrating, they call each other out on the lack of love, which gives the reason why they would not go to the US or would not come home. Carelessness in this action also results in more children, placing a heavier burden and installs more abandonment within the original children’s hearts. Finally, the traveled parents miss their original children growing, which burns a mother’s heart more and more each year they are without their children, then it seems doubled as they have a new child with them, or have only one of their children of 3 or 4 with them in the United States. It truly is a surprising statement of the many people that really think leaving their families is the best decision; it breaks a family apart and makes it nearly impossible to glue them back together. People should not leave their homes unless they are certain they can accept the risk, and have little to no family to miss or break apart. Otherwise, they should try their hardest to make it work where they live currently, if they seem willing to struggle so much for so much more
pain.