Demi Lovato Meaning

For my popular source, I chose the song That’s How You Know by Demi Lovato. This song was featured in Disney’s 2007 film Enchanted and the lyrics explain how a man should show his affection towards a woman and how to tell her he loves her. “It’s not enough to take the one you love for granted. You must remind her or she’ll be inclined to say, ‘How do I know he loves me?’” said Lovato. The song also gives advice to women on how to know whether their significant other truly loves them. “Does he take you out dancing just so he can For my professional resource, I chose to use Dr. John Gottman’s concept of “the magic five hours.” John Gottman is a psychologist and family researcher that studies relationships, especially marriage. His concept of the “the magic five hours” concentrate on small, significant actions that couples should do in order to maintain, improve, and strengthen their relationships. By the end of
These actions listed throughout the song include dancing, holding her close, setting a private picnic by the fire, leaving her little notes, and sending flowers. According to Gottman’s magic give hours, it is important to have time for Admiration and Appreciation, Affection, and Spending Time Together; these are the three hours in which the actions of the song fall into. To strengthen a couple’s relationship, they should find a way every day to genuinely communicate admiration and appreciation. They should also kiss, hold, touch each other, and be playful with affection. Especially for married couples, a couple should take the time, at least two hours every week, to go out on a date alone. During the date, they should use the time to talk, update each other about important issues, play, and enjoy being