To do this the feedback needs to be meaningful and personalised and this can be done within the coaching session with the coach giving feedback on what is being said and encouraging an ‘in the moment’ style of feedback. Feedback should be given and received and should avoid being judgmental. It should always be positive and constructive and one way of ensuring effective feedback is to use the whole message model which is a way of breaking down feedback into four sections to achieve the best possible results; Observations – statements of what you have seen or heard, describing the situation in concrete facts, specific events and behaviors using ‘I saw, I noticed’. Thoughts – your conclusions based on your observations ‘I wonder if/ my perception is’. Feelings – appropriate expression of the situation ‘I am concerned/ I feel’ and Wants – a clear statement of results, what has changed. Feedback in coaching is very different from performance setting as it should be given in the here and now and should be ongoing and encouraging, the coach should try to get the coachee to reflect back on the feedback and be involved in the process. A good coach should also be open to receiving feedback about the effectiveness of their coaching
To do this the feedback needs to be meaningful and personalised and this can be done within the coaching session with the coach giving feedback on what is being said and encouraging an ‘in the moment’ style of feedback. Feedback should be given and received and should avoid being judgmental. It should always be positive and constructive and one way of ensuring effective feedback is to use the whole message model which is a way of breaking down feedback into four sections to achieve the best possible results; Observations – statements of what you have seen or heard, describing the situation in concrete facts, specific events and behaviors using ‘I saw, I noticed’. Thoughts – your conclusions based on your observations ‘I wonder if/ my perception is’. Feelings – appropriate expression of the situation ‘I am concerned/ I feel’ and Wants – a clear statement of results, what has changed. Feedback in coaching is very different from performance setting as it should be given in the here and now and should be ongoing and encouraging, the coach should try to get the coachee to reflect back on the feedback and be involved in the process. A good coach should also be open to receiving feedback about the effectiveness of their coaching