How Opa Changed My Life

“Opa” is the Greek word that is often said when people celebrate life. The meaning is separated into three parts: connect meaningfully with others, engage with deeper purpose, and embrace life with attitude. I first began living with this standard after losing in a competition when I was in the seventh grade. This loss made me realize that setbacks should not let you down, and that better things are soon to follow. When I was in seventh grade, my middle school participated in a very well-known science fair competition in Los Angeles County. The fair showcased projects done by students all over the county, and only a few of the best students were chosen as winners. The winners, depending on the grade level, won cash prizes, medals, and even scholarship offers. As most people would be, I was really enthusiastic that I got an opportunity to participate in such a rigorous event.
During the summer break, I constantly worked on my project. From conducting the experiment, to analyzing my results, to perfecting my presentation; I worked on my project to my best capability. Finally, the day came where my project would be judged by dozens of extremely talented scientists.
I was nerve-wrecked, but I did my best in presenting my project. When the winners were announced, I was eagerly listening with a mildly beating heart. I was very disappointed when my name was not called. I was devastated, as I was an immature child at that time. I started tearing up and began doubting myself. My family and friends tried to console me, but eventually gave up. However, one thing that my teacher had said stuck with me. She said, “Life is too short for you to be doubting yourself; just try again next year and who knows, you might win”; I kept that piece of advice with me wholeheartedly. The following year, when I was in eighth grade, I participated in the science fair again. I put in the same effort, but one thing was different; my perspective. I thought that if I do win, then it will be an accomplishment for me. However, if I did not then it would act as a learning experience. I confidently presented my project to the judges with an open mind and no nerve-wrecking
thoughts.
At last, the results were being announced. I was not nervous, instead I was ready to accept whatever fate was about to befall on to me. There were eighty students participating in my category, Plant Biology, and was the biggest category in the fair. The fair was filled with very bright students, but I did not allow those factors worry me. I made a mental note to be content with what I got. Turns out, I won first place. I was shocked and ecstatic. I received my cash prize and medal, and stood in the winner’s circle. It was then when I realized that I must embrace life with a positive attitude and good things do come. I really pondered over that realization that night. It really changed my attitude towards devastating moments, and throughout the year I kept being optimistic about these moments as I remembered what I learned that night.
I learned very valuable life lessons from this experience. I learned that mistakes are inevitable, and setbacks are a given in life. However, one must get over these let downs and continue to work hard in order to live life to its full potential. I am glad I had that opportunity to fail as it taught me all of these lessons. Now, I constantly try to look at negative events under a much more positive light.