the rhythm that matches most closely with one's true self, without comprising core values. It is the optimal amount of monitoring.
Advantages of Scoring High in Self-Monitoring
High self-monitors read non-verbal behavior better.
They always change their behavior to suit the situation as they perceive it.High self-monitors easily blend into social situations, knowing what to do or say to each person. They appear more friendly and less anxious to observers. They are sensitive to social cues are likely to vary their behavior from situation to situation.They are more concerned with acting appropriately than being true to themselves.
They have different friends for unique activities. They mostly use situational factors to explain their behavior.They like to date around, and have different dates for different places. Friendship loss is not a difficulty, as there are other friends to replace any that are lost. They have many friends, but are not very close with most of them. High self-monitors describe themselves as adaptive, shrewd and flexible. They are concerned about the appearance of their …show more content…
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Disadvantages of Low Scoring in Self-Monitoring
Low self-monitors on the other hand, act themselves up regardless of the situation.They rarely conform to the norms of the social setting.
Low Self Monitors are less sensitive to social cues. They are less likely to change their behavior from one situation to another. They have steady and intimate relationships.They care more about their partner's personality. They select friends with similarattitude as them. They have the same friends for all of their activities. Low self-monitors are consistent and principled. They use dispositional explanations to explain their behavior. They have fewfriends who are quite close to them. Friendship loss is difficult, because they are so few that each will be missed quite a bit. The loss will affect, most if not all their
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