Let’s Talk About Sex (2009) is a documentary film directed by James Houston that describes how American attitudes toward teenage sexuality affect teenagers in today’s society. Sex has become a media means and marketing tool to influence people’s buying decisions. The misleading messages about sex in today’s media have confused teenagers with incorrect information and thus led to a sky-high numbers of teenage unintended pregnancy and transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), costing the nation more than 9 billion dollars each year. Yet, it seems to be apparent that educational institutions like schools and churches have not been successful in teaching sex education. The vicious cycle continues to worsen and has resulted in various societal issues. The director has interviewed some families in American and in Netherland, depicting a strong contrast in attitudes toward sexuality among the families. The Netherlanders holds a much more open attitude to human sexuality. The film engages the audience to think about this “forbidden” topic and challenges them to make a difference in protecting the adolescents.…
Every child can be hurt, put at risk of being harmed or abused, regardless of their age, gender, religion or ethnicity.…
“the action we take to promote the welfare of children and protect them from harm - is everyone’s responsibility. Everyone who comes into contact with children and families has a role to play.”…
According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, the average teenager engages in sexual intercourse by the age of seventeen, but do not marry until the mid-twenties (citation). This means that young adults are at an increased risk for unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections for nearly ten years or longer. The numbers of students engaging in sexual activity of ages thirteen to twenty-four continues to grow each year, as does the number of unplanned pregnancies and HIV infections due to not being fully educated about the risks. Today, the duty of educating students and teenagers about sexual intercourse and the risks involved is left to the government and public school system. Abstinence education programs in public…
Teens did not know their own bodies. There were little factual resources that teenagers can depend. Few choices left for them, teenagers were guided along high risk actions. Abstinence was the approved option by parents, as it teaches teens to not be sexually active but not on protection or STDS. Another path is exploration on their own means. Exploration was dangerous, because teenagers were unaware of the consequences. Both options plunged teens’ health into a abyss. Then around 1980s, media started to reach towards the topic of sexual activity in teenagers. Many teen movies brushed against the topic about sexual activity and gave more positive responses than usual. Now, there is a rapid increase in sexual activity amongst teens. Due to this rise of sexually active teens, sexual health programs in high schools need to be updated to accommodate this change. High schools need to avoid only abstinence learning and implemented new programs for…
When it comes to sexual decisions, an individual must think about all the consequences. If they do to wish to get pregnant, they need to think about some form of birth control. If they do not wish to catch a sexually transmitted disease, they must think about using protection. As with anything that we do in life, we should think long and hard about having sex when we are not married. As fun as it is and as pleasurable as it may be, unwanted things can happen. In today’s times, teens seem to be less active when it comes to sex than they were back in the late 1970’s and early 1980’s.…
It might be difficult to accept but every child can be hurt, put at risk or harm or abused, regardless of their age, gender, religion or ethnicity.…
Dimitrov, Dimiter M and Charles L. Thomas. “Effects of a Teen Pregnancy Prevention Program on Teens' Attitudes Toward Sexuality: A Latent Trait Modeling Approach”. Developmental Psychology; Jan2007, Vol. 43 Issue 1, p173-185, 13p, 2 Diagrams, 9 Charts. <a href="http://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&db=a9h&AN=23614734&site=ehost-live">Effects of a Teen Pregnancy Prevention Program on Teens' Attitudes Toward Sexuality: A Latent Trait Modeling Approach.</a>…
The United States is often known as the land of opportunity, the birthplace of the American Dream, and the place to the start of a new life. But the United States doesn’t come without its flaws. America is also known for having the highest rate of teen pregnancy in the world. The cause of the high rate of teen pregnancy has baffled many politicians and educators alike and has been a problem for decades. But research suggests that the United States approach on sex educated is dated and ineffective. Instead of focusing on avoiding the topic of sex, Americans should embrace the topic and should be willing to freely talk about sex.…
I am putting Sexual Health first because I believe it is probly the most important issue I am going to have to face in terms of myself in my life time. When I wrote my first reflection on this I made the point that I needed to stop going with impulses and trusting someone that I felt was a “safe choice” and instead of letting them slide, making them wear a condom all the time no matter what. I stated that I didn’t want to catch a disease or die and I should always have the man strap up. My reasoning behind not making a man wear a condom all the time was because it felt bad during sex when a man wears a condom and when in a long term relationship the level of intimacy is heightened so much more by the intensity of the experience. Easier said to make a man wear a condom than done. I don’t want to catch AIDs and die one day but I don’t know if I can live completely without the pure ecstacy that I enjoy in my sex life without. I am regularly tested for STDs and HIV every 6 months when I have my gynecological visits and I use Depo Provera every 3 months to keep from becoming pregnant and I will continue with my regular testing. I am going to try to figure out a plan to help improve my sexual health as hard as this may be.…
Have you ever had a time when you talked to your siblings about sex? I remember the time when I talked to my older siblings about intercourse. I walked open minded to my siblings with thoughts coming from each and every direction. I would then ask my siblings why did they have sex before marriage before marriage. My brother responded saying the girls looked good and he couldn’t resist. My sister responded saying it was a foolish mistake, and that I should practice abstinence. To avoid premarital sex these are three steps that is followed to lead to success.…
Taking into consideration what Weinstein writes about the child abuse laws, In the 1970s there were laws against child abuse, but they were not strictly enforced. In 1970 there were 72,000 child abuse cases reported. Around 1975 the child abuse laws changed to protect to protect the accuser, in 1980's the amount of reported child abuse cases went up by 15 times and keeps going up every year. Today's child abuse laws have gone too far parents are afraid to discipline their children, which causes today's youth to run rampage. In which causes the children, who will one day run our country to feel like they don't have to…
Premarital Sex is now treated by many as natural or normal. Mostly teenagers occur to this even outside marriage. They continue doing this because it does satisfy their sexual pleasures. They are not aware that what they are doing is a sin called fornication. Fornication means sexual immorality or voluntary sexual intercourse between two persons of the opposite sex, where one or both are unmarried.…
News headlines about the heinous parent acts against children such as abuse, assault and rape are more than just disturbing. They are shocking. Most of us can’t imagine what would make adult use violence against children, and the worse the behavior is, the more unimaginable it seems. It is only right that we bring forth the issue of these despicable acts. Protecting children from harm and violence is not just the duty of the authorities concerned. Society has to play its part as well.…
Since almost everything in today’s times can be achieved in an instant, the advancements which helped in achieving an easy life promoted a no more sweat to catch lifestyle and so people’s way in dealing with daily life and relationships also come in just a snap and some things, even the most delicate, sacred and intimate like achieving pleasure is the same as cooking instant noodles. Some of us might wonder why such things, even forbidden in our society is in reality existing and is rapidly becomes the core issue especially with teenagers. The truth is how much we deny ‘sex’, it is still one of the controversial and mostly undeniable topics and it’s all because, even teenagers are actively engaged on it. We call it as “Pre-marital sex” because it is done outside marriage and we know that this is not morally right but how come in a recent survey conducted by Jeremy and his colleges,” The last one hundred years have witnessed a revolution in sexual behaviour. In 1900, only 6% of US women would have engaged in premarital sex by the age of 19, compared to 75% today. Public acceptance of premarital sex has reacted with a lag; in 1968 only 15% of women had a permissive attitude towards the act, despite the fact that about 40% of 19 year-old females had had premarital sex. The number with a permissive attitude had jumped to 45% by 1983, a time when 73% of 19 year olds were sexually experienced”… and worldwide, about 47% are actively engaged in pre-marital sex. Is it all because of the influences that are brought about by the TV, magazines, and free porn videos on the internet or is it just the curiosity of the young people’s mind? Is the moral law will weigh heavier than the world’s modern eyes?…