These are the values that I want my children to see in me. They are the same values that I want them to think of when remembering me after I’m gone. I must demonstrate dedication in order to teach my children that life isn’t easy. There will always be the occasional setbacks, and hard times, but one must not lose sight of their goals. This is, in my mind, my responsibility to not only teach them this value, but show it in my actions. The second value is commitment to my family. It is a value that I see myself demonstrating by striving to accomplish my goal of having a successful business through hard work and dedication, but at the same time I still conducted my responsibilities as a husband and a father. Work, education, and your career means nothing if you don’t have a family or loved ones to be there with you when you do …show more content…
I had no purpose. I had no real tangible goals. Being a father for a couple of years had changed my outlook on my future at this age, and it was then that I realized the military was a good option. I was right. Discipline is one of the most important things that I learned in the military. If there is one thing that I now excel at, it is scheduling work, home, and school. It’s easy for one to speak of how disciplined they are when times are good and things are running smoothly. True discipline is displayed only when challenged by upsets to our schedule, or routine. My Focus
I maintain my focus by leaving myself reminders of my goals and my drive to accomplish them. On all of my computers, both at work and home, I have screen savers and wallpapers of images that remind me how important it is to push forward. These images consist of family photos, pictures of places I would like to go, and also material things like cars that I want to have one day. All these things combined remind me of how important it is that I get it together and shrug off work frustration and issues at home. The end state is what keeps my focus.
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