Kathryn Tyler gives a good example of how parents were being super overprotective with their children and how that caused them not to be reliable for themselves. Tyler said something that really caught my eye, “Parental involvement in the lives of their offspring seems to be increasing every year. I’ve seen parents come to campus protesting a low-grade. When I caught one student cheating on a paper, his mom called and demanded I let him write a new paper”, in my opinion, I strongly agree with the writer's point of view. A lot of teenagers today are really in dependable because their parents have solved everything for them, but why?…
‘if your parents frequently degraded or devalued you, especially if they implied you were never good enough, you’re likely to grow up feeling a deep seated sense of inadequacy and failure’. (Koenig, 2007, p. 88)…
My mother and father have taught me different techniques to live life. When I was in high school I obeyed my parents, but I did not understand why they said certain things until college. In high school my parents would tell me to control my emotions. When they told me to control my emotions I thought how can people have sovereignty over their emotions. In my freshman year of college, I realized what my parents meant. I am constantly put into high stress situations where I need to exercise control of my emotions. For example, when I take a math test I get very paranoid and anxious but I learned to conquer my feelings by taking deep breaths and rationalizing the situation. I usually breath and remind myself of where I am and that I am going to finish the test with my best effort that I can give within the time allotted. Plato's Allegory of the Cave portrays prisoners who have been held captive in chains for their entire childhood. The free prisoner was unable to use any preconceived knowledge from childhood. In contrast, I will always be able to rely on my parents’ influence on me as a child. At first, my parents shared words of wisdom with me, and I would listen but not truly understand. In college, I have dealt with many situations by using the lessons my parents taught me as a high schooler. My parents’ words have given me insight for the future so that I am able to become an independent…
Parents, family members and friends influence our thoughts and beliefs for better. As we develop our values and ethics it is through past experiences whether it is positive or negative experiences that help mold us as adults. I developed ethics and values when I was young. I was taught to know right from wrong at a young age. I was punished if I lied or did something wrong and both parents has high standards and morals that they wanted me to abide by. They taught me that cheating, stealing and lying would not be tolerated. I would be held responsible if I did any of these unethical behaviors. They taught me to be truthful, humble, and treat others how you wanted to be…
My mother would always weep to hear the voice of a young man ,who has taken care of himself and his little sister. My father was more than proud of the person who I was becoming, and in that moment I realized these certain changes that were occurring through my life. Numerous of flashbacks of when I had to walk from school holding my young sister's tiny hand, or when I had to bring errands such as vegetables or tortillas for dinner, all the responsibilities I was given everyday to complete, it was to help me become the person I am today. I have seen young people nowadays, and it’s hard to watch them mistreat their parents and not give them the proper love and respect they really…
Nearly one million high school teens drank alcohol and got behind the wheel in 2011(CDC Vital signs: Teen Drinking and Driving, 2012.) Teen drivers are 3 times more likely than more experienced drivers to be in a fatal crash. Drinking any alcohol greatly increases this risk for teens. Research has shown that factors that help to keep teens safe include parental involvement, minimum legal drinking age and zero tolerance laws, and graduated driver licensing systems. These proven steps can protect the lives of more young drivers and everyone who shares the road with them. The factor that we will look at is parental involvement. Each parent has different sets of rules and expectations for their children. Some parents may have higher expectations than others which can result in poor choices such as drinking and driving. The example we will use today to show the difference in parenting styles will be a 16 year old girl, who was very intoxicated, hit a tree with her family’s car. The police brought her to the station and now the Father has to come pick her up. But this situation can end in many different ways dependent upon the Father’s type of parenting style. These parenting styles, such as authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and neglectful, will be looked at and put into the example we just went through.…
Parents, when their children are born, have a certain way they think that their child will be when the child grows to adulthood. So, assuming they know what the child should be like, raise the child to try to fit into a certain mold of a “good child.” But no two people are exactly alike. A father may have been an athletic jock with great grades, while his son could be unathletic and struggle in school. On the other hand, maybe a child could be a great student but the parent expected the child to only be athletic and then does not support the child in school. It was Jim Morrison, lead singer for the the band The Doors, who said, “The most loving parents and relatives commit murder with smiles on their faces. They force us…
Rather than being gifted with parents who were capable of being around for all life’s hardships, I was given parents who were forced to work hours that did not allow for these moments. So while they were slaving away in factories to give their children the type of life they had not been so lucky to have, I decided that nobody knew what kind of person I wanted to be more than I did. So I would be the decider of what was acceptable for me to behave like and what should not.…
Many students in middle school think of High School as a place where teachers would not care about them or what they do, party, “freedom” etc. High School “can be that” when a student would make it that, but what really is, it’s a place where teachers prepare students for the big world and College. I didn’t really see that in High School my freshman and sophomore year. I saw it like the rest of the “party animal’’ students did in middle school. Instead of staying home and studying for exams, I would go out to clubs on school days, I would NEVER pay attention in class or Do my homework. I wanted to be like the rest of the “cool” kids. On my Sophomore year I calmed down a bit, I payed attention in school, didn’t really go out and “party” on school nights but I was unorginazed, my notes were awful and some didn’t even make sense! I never really saw my report card last year because my grades where that bad. I ended up going to summer school and making up ALL of my classes.…
And since my parents never showed even the slightest signs of weakness, fatigue, or dejection, I grew up under the warmth of their radiant, loving smiles. However, looking back, I took a lot for granted, mistakenly believing that everything they did for me was merely expected. Similarly, I regret all those stubborn and meaningless arguments I’d have with them over the minute details. At these moments, I did not recognize how grateful and fortunate I actually was to have such devoted, loving parents.…
I grew up in a very conservative, restricted family household. I still remember the many times I thought to myself why my siblings and I couldn’t go to another place other than church. Or why the many kids in my neighborhood where allowed, of what it seemed at that time, the million opportunities to enjoy their childhood. From a young age I was to obey and do what I was told. To not deviate from my parents’ wishes, which were for me to be good Christian and someone who always did well by school and society. As a got older I realized that our…
In high school, teens are forced to have good grades. Good grades require hours of homework, project, and essays. Not to add the many hours of studying. This pressure becomes a lot. Soon we ae turning to alcohol. Alcohol is easy to get our hands on, considering many of our parents drink. Some students may even turn to drugs, which are even easier to their hands on.…
The transition between high school and college is an unreal experience for many. For a young student your entire life you need to follow all of these rules. You have to do what you’re told to do. Growing up you’re used to one type of life, and that is in your home life. All through kindergarten and high school, you are brought up to be like drones, or that is what it seems like to be. You are told to do this, do that without any question All this tension brews inside the student that can make them crazy sometimes. Some students handle it better than others. When that day comes, the day to ship off to college, you gain this sense of pride, nervousness, content, but most of all you gain freedom. Freedom is power which allows you to do what ever you want to do without any guardian of yours to talk into your ear telling you what to do. Being young and reckless, students go out and fulfill their need to party and that includes binge drinking to a whole new level.…
Throwing parties, attending parties, getting wasted at parties, getting caught at parties, or maybe even getting arrested at parties. Whenever a boy or girl at my school says something like “my parents are going out of town for a week on vacation”, nine out of ten times the responding question will be along the lines of “are you going to have a party?” or “nice, what address can I tell people to come to?”. So, adolescents like to have fun, but usually it’s to a dangerous extent. Even dating back to middle school, I can recall old stories of Halloween parties getting busted by cops because some parents forgot to lock their liquor cabinets, and the kids wanted to get a little rowdy. But that’s just an innocent eighth grade party- today, you can take it to even more extreme levels with the high school parties, which almost always includes marijuana or other deadly drugs. So why do teenagers like to participate in these activities, when they normally only end in turmoil? Throughout my high school career, I have not attended many parties, which I do not have a problem with. I am not the kind of person who wants to publicly humiliate myself by getting drunk just so I can have a “good” time. I have witnessed numerous accounts of teenagers being sent away to private schools, or being thrown out of the house by participating in these “typical high school activities”. But why do you need narcotics and liquid courage to be a fun person to hang out with on a Friday night? You don’t, you’re just fooling…
I say bad words. I lie. I cheat. I steal and I can even kill if I have to, because I’m a bad girl. But where are my parents? You are my parents. My good elder brother and sister in this society where I live. Look what you have done to me. You pampered and spoiled me; neglected me. You entrusted me to yaya whose intelligence is lower than mine. while you go about your dinner and gambling sessions. Thus, you drifted much away from me, while I was left longing for a fathers love and yearning for a mothers care.…