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Where I m From
I am from my baby rocking chair, from coors light and white wine.
I am from the long driveway and the leafy grove in the front yard.
I am from the fragrant orange trees, the majestic pomegranate trees, and the lush avocado trees.
I am from weekend trips to Punta Colonet enjoying the sun with my parents and a long lineage of blonde hair and blue eyes which skipped me, from Ron Rosol and M’linda Williams.
I am from the carefree lifestyle and vigilant behavior. From “Love you more” and “I’m going to give you until the count of three.”
I am from the scattered bibles, barbeques and pasta salad.
I am from the pictures hung on the refrigerator with assorted magnets, the pictures placed around the house, and the photo albums locked away in cabinets to be forgotten.
~Mallory Rosol

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