The Second aspect is to defend what we say. Once we have said something, we can never go backward, so we must choose the words correctly. The worst thing that we can do when speaking is to hesitate. The strength of our words will surely determine their effect on the listener. The way that we speak and the content of our speech tell a lot about ourselves and our personality. A conversation allows speakers and listeners to get to know each other better.
The third main aspect of effective communication is to express exactly what we mean to say. We should pick up the words that will express exactly what we are thinking of. The listeners get their own version of what is said. However our job is to express ourselves clearly, so we can avoid misunderstandings. Words are double edged weapons which can be used either to defend or to attack. If we make a good use of them, we will be able to do almost everything. In conclusion, an effective communication will help us to express ourselves better and also we can change our environment toward our own